Find you a partner, or someone who can help you to practice hitting, throwing, catching, run to build your endurance. You might be able to find a batting cage so that you can use that, and won't have to chase the balls, and get more time to spend looking at the ball. If you have a partner, they can help you and you can help them. If you know someone who plays, ask them to work out with you, to help teach you, and to help. It's good when you have someone who is better than you to play catch with. Have a good work ethic.
"TEAM PLAYER"---If you want to be a "team" then have a good attitude, do what ever a coach tells you. It' hard to have a good team if girls have an attitude, it divides the team, hard for a coach to teach "team sports" if there are attitudes. So if you do what you are told, that is being "coachable" and a lot of coaches look for "coachable players". The others just drag down the team, cause problems and divide team. You will be an asset on the team if you have a positive attitude.
ATTITUDE"- If you get on the team, and not get much playing time,,just keep a good attitude, while you are practicing, and be prepared and ready to play at anytime. When you are asked to go in, THEN , do your job as well as you can, and you may be suprised to see that you are asked to play more, and never know you may be replacing someone who is injured, doesn't do their job, or has has an attitude. I can tell you coaches do not accept players well who have attitudes. College scouts will take a player with less talent, if they see or hear that you have an attitude and the next girl has a better one.
GRADES----keep your grades up, coaches don't want to have to pull a girl off the team or be on discipline for her grades. It doesn't help the "team"... So get class work & homework done as soon as you can, so that it is not holding you back. When tryouts start, you will be busy, and not a lot of time to spend on homework, classwork as you normally do. Then if you make the team, it is even less time, w/games, travel, practice.
PARENTS--Ask them to support you, listen when you have something to say about it, where it is good or just complaining about either the girls or coaches. But listening does not always mean that you want them to attack any of the girls or the coach.
It means you just need to vent your feelings. Maybe they can see why the coach may say something differnent than the way you feel, and you can see a different side of things.
As a parent we don't want to see our kid hurting, so our nature is to take care of our child, so the first thing we may want approach the coach and tell them what we think, or to "attack" the coach verbally, but that is not the way to do it. It is ok, to talk to the coach, to be able to understand what, why and to answer your questions. (some coaches do not mind at all to be questioned)
If your parents support you, they will see what the coach means when they say you may have an attitude, or that you won't try , or won't listen to them, or you are hanging around w/a group of girls that are trouble makers, if they have sat back and watched practice to see what is going on. If they are not there, then they are just taking your word for it, and when you are the one that feels you are being hurt by coaches comments, sometimes things don't always "look" they way the "feel". Feelings are sometimes threatened, and we get a personal feeling and sometimes the "true" reason a coach may have said or done something and so we can't see that what was said or done is not a personal attack on us.
( I know some coaches have different ways of coaching that we may not agree with, nor understand, but they are the coach, and if we want to play if it's their rules, then there's not a lot that you can do, except talk it out w/them, go to the school officials, do wht they want, but trying to work it out is better than letting it burn inside and not understand or agree and then someone blows their top and a big fight happens. Just a simple little talk w/o attitudes, sometimes answers some questions and puts things to ease.
See if there is any travel ball teams that you can practice with, sometimes they need a player just to fill up the roster so they can play. Be honest with the coach that you have played baseball, and you want to play softball, see if he can help to show you somethings, or if they have any players you can work out with. See if there are any local sports programs that you can join to learn more about softball. Go to softball fields on the weekend to see games that are in progress, walk around and talk to coaches, players, and see what you can find out. Watch when they practice to see how the do things, go home and practice what you have learned. You never know you may find a team looking for a player too.
Doyle Baseball school also has a program for softball players, if you can find one in your area, they have inside cages, drills to do and you can learn something from them.
KEEP PRACTICING--have a good attitude-w/self control, be responsible, respectible, dependable, have a good work ethic, stay away from trouble makers, partiers, even if you are wanting a friend they can bring you down and you can get caught up in their life and you can loos your chance for a scholarship in the first year of play and not eve realize what is happening to you, that you have just gotten youself caught up in the "peer pressure of being a friend', at a cost to you and your reputation. I have seen it happen a lot over the last 15 or so years.
Sounds like you are really interested in playing and making an attempt now to make plans for it shows that you have some good morals and attitude towards some things in life, planning ahead is good, not waiting until it's time just before tryouts to start working on it is good too. No matter where you go take you a ball and a glove, never know when you can find a partner. Or even better, take two gloves, then someone (maybe parent, grandparent, aunt, unlcle, cousin, anyone) can do some play and catch w/you. Every little bit you do now, will show up later on and it will work, as long as you keep it up..
If you have any questions on how to do something or some drills you can do, if you email me, I will get either my daughter or husband have or are coaches to tell you somethings to do to help you too. Some ideas on actual techniques..
Good luck and didn't mean to write so much, but being around softball, 21 years, I have a lot to say about it, some of the girls, coaches, etc.
Practice, Practice, Practice...it may not make you the best, but it will make you better..
2006-10-28 06:47:01
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answered by susanberry007 2
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