I`m a virgin and my mother told me it is important to never have sex and to stay a virgin. why is it important.
2006-10-28 05:34:20 · 10 answers · asked by whip cream pie! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should stay a virgin till you're married.
God intended it to be that way.
But many, MANY people abuse that.
And God looks down on those people.
You don't just give your virginity to just anybody.
It is the best present you can give your future husband.
It is you... it is all of you.
If you become pregnant, you can handle it better when you're married.
You'll have that person beside you who promised to always be by your side.
It won't be some random guy or some guy who you THOUGHT loved you.
Sex makes many things complicated in an unmarried relationship.
It takes two very mature people.
You do not want to get yourself lost in everything that comes with sex.
Most people nowadays tend to just BASE their relationship on sex.
I am a virgin myself. I have a boyfriend of 9 months that I am completely in love with. We talk about marriage and how I want to wait till our wedding day to have sex. He truly does love me... he respects me. That's when you KNOW you have a great guy. That's when you KNOW he's in love with you... when he has absolutely no problem in waiting. Actions speak louder than words...
Your mother is right.
2006-10-28 05:54:00 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never is a strong word. Saving it for the "one" you love is very important, not only to that person....but for yourself. Reputations can KILL you in the figurative sense, and would you want to walk around with your personal life plastered on a billboard? Losing it once can be considered a skank, because only you really know how many time you have had sex. I am 22 and a virgin, and I am proud of it. I am saving it for marriage with the one I love, but I am not preaching that on anyone else, it's how I feel. I have heard so many girls that have a reputation from doing it, and although we don't know how many times she had sex, she is still called that. As well as issues with sexually transmitted diseases and the possibility with pregnancy....abstinance IS 100% foolproof, so a lot of people feel that way.
My cousins make such a huge deal that I am a virgin, but it's all by preference. I dont preach my stuff, it's what makes me happy.
2006-10-28 06:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by overwhelmed85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is important - cause you will remember who you had sex with the first time for the rest of your life, its something not to take lightly, you should think about it before you do it to know it is something you want to do and be safe doing it - it can change your life alot - i know it did mine and i wish i would have waited for a guy who truly loved me, not just someone that wanted sex - its not always the case - but alot of times it is and you don't find out until its too late.
2006-10-28 05:45:41 · answer #3 · answered by cmjanitor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ill merely say this as quickly as. while you're making plans on doing it then plan the the ideal option way. locate a thank you to pass to a health facility like planned parenthood this type you are able to discover ways to apply the condom precise. It takes somewhat better than merely slipping it on. and in line with danger wait till she is the right age for beginning administration. she will take it even just to lighten her era so she does no longer might desire to describe why she desires it for her mom and father. I commend you on your ideal spelling yet heavily guy you will be able to correctly be a touch too youthful for that. on the remarkable facet there is very virtually no danger of having an STD from her. you will locate that later on your virginity isn't significant and your lifestyles studies on your early years are not significant the two. Its merely intercourse yet intercourse can yield efficient effects. i myself am sixteen and have not had intercourse, i'm waiting for the the ideal option guy or woman and that i optimistic as hell am no longer gonna locate that guy or woman in highschool. for you? You optimistic as hell are actually not gonna spend the subsequent 60 years with this woman. so which you will wait. OR. you're able to do it wisely and communicate approximately it with somebody who's conscious of roughly sexual well-being.
2016-12-28 07:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I biffed it ... I don't have my virginity ... but now I understand more about sex ... chastity is important to me, untill I get married.
Marriage shows the image of the God.
Marriage is the image of the love of God within the Trinity; spouses also image the love between God and all humanity, made visible in the love of Christ and the Church. By virture of their baptisms, the marriage of Christains is a sacrament. That means it's a living sign that truly communicates and participates in the uniuon of Christ and the Church. The marriage vows lived out in the spouses' "one flesh" union constitute this living sign.
Paraphrasing St. Paul: For this reason a man will leave father and mother and cling to his bride, and the two shall become one flesh. This is a profound mystery, and it refers to Christ and the Church. Christ left his Father in heaven. He left the home of his mother on earth -- to give up his body for his Bride (Church), so that we might become "one flesh" with hime (Eucharist).
Since the "one flesh" communion of man and wife foreshadowed the Eucharistic communion of Christ and the Church right from the begginning, John Paul II speaks of marriage as the "primordial sacrament". Of all the ways that God chooses to reveal his life and love in the created world, JPII is saying, marriage - enacted and consummated by sexual union - is the most fundamental. Could God have made our sexuality any more important than this? Any more beautiful? Any more glorious? God gave us sexual desire itself to be the power to love as he loves, so that we could participate in divine life and fulfill the very meaning of our being and existence (within MARRIAGE)
Sounds great, you say, but it's a far cry fro the way sex plays itself out in the experience of real human beings. Yes, it is. The historic abuse of women at the hands of men; the tragedy of rape and other heinous sex crimes, even against children; AIDS and a host of other sexually transmitted disseases; unwed mothers; "Fatherless" childreen; abortion; adultery; skyrocketing divorce rates; prostitution; a multibilion-dollar pornography industry; the general cloud of shame and guilt that hangs over sexual matters - all of this paints a very differernt picture from the one St. Paul and John Paul II give us.
The picture it paints, in fact, is the tragedy of human sinfulness and our fall from God's intention for our sexuality "in the beginning." When you keep your virginity, you are honoring yourself, your possible future husband, and society.
2006-10-29 10:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you would be giving yourself to someone you really love. It would be any good if you just waste it just for some random sex. It would have to be special.
2006-10-28 05:36:45 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look
Sex des not lead to your true love.
But your true will always lead to .......
2006-10-28 05:39:44 · answer #7 · answered by ericlucey2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not important at all but it sure is fun
2006-10-28 05:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
its not that important
2006-10-28 05:37:50 · answer #9 · answered by Bob D 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it's not for us just for you
2006-10-28 05:55:43 · answer #10 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋