My boyfriend is wonderful, I wouldn't be with him if he weren't. We live together but my computer is the only computer we have. That said, I have noticed that just about everyday there is a new list of about 10-20 porn sites listed in the history. I've never really thought that porn was that big of a deal, I just accepted it as something that all guys do (and honestly I don't believe a man if he says he doesn't look at it). This brings me to my next point - what really bothers me is how archaic it all is. The need to be visually stimulated by all of these women. It upsets me to think that this is how men's minds work - that they are so simple-minded that this is something they "need" otherwise they'll "get it somewhere else". Like if porn didn't exist, that is it would be okay for men to **** around on their girlfriends & wives. The things I "need" are food, water, etc... so why does this antiquated thinking still exist? Why haven't we evolved beyond this?
2006-10-28 05:23:28 · 10 answers · asked by Molly B 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Molly, you can call me a liar if you want to, but I am a man who does not look at porn. Why would I want to look at a picture, or a movie, when I can look at my awesomely beautiful wife, who is right there in my house where I can not only see her but touch her.
I don't understand what is so great about looking at women who would be more appropriately named "US patent pending" because of the implant surgeries, liposuction and other plastic surgeries they have had.
I want to also point out that pornography would not exist if there were no men AND women who were willing to watch, participate in the making of or spending their money on this crap. This stuff appeals to the depraved mind.
2006-10-28 05:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by bowtierodz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-17 19:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by Tracey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 01:29:05 · answer #3 · answered by lashbrook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First - your premise is an excuse for him. You seem to think it's ok for him to look at porn. It is not - no, not all men look at it.
It is a form of cheating - he is looking at other women and what do you think is going through his mind? Is that ok with you? If it is you need to rethink your ideas of relationships and what you have the right to expect as a woman. You have bought into a social disease that is destructive and unacceptable.
Just about count on the fact that any relationship you have with a man involved in porn will not be a long term one, for obvious reasons: he has his sights set elsewhere (everywhere) and you allow it - so you allowing him to disrespect you and he knows it.
You have to take a stand - do not live with pornography in your home. You deserve more than that and respect yourself enough to have it that way.
He has a problem that has to be addressed, and stoppped.
2006-10-28 05:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men without Sexual stimulation are mean,bitter and ineffective.
We are just made that way.
Yes even Einstein, Benjamin Franklin and many other great minds all were notiious in this affect.
Men are built with this drive we must satiate to function.
Those that satiate it function better.
Women do not have it. I wish more understood it.
There is a Greek story of two cities of women that tired of the endless wars between them and the raping and pilliging that occurred. They cut the men off from sex.
Both cities were entirely wiped out.
Have you heard men think of sex every six seconds?
Geniusus get enough that they think of it every 20 seconds.
2006-10-28 05:32:13 · answer #5 · answered by Kaustaub 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I were you, I wouldn't accept this as "something all guys do" that's just not true. Yes, a lot of guys do but I know a lot who don't. I think that's why so many men get away with it... we women just accept it! Have you told him how much it bothers you?
Men should have more self control especially if they are in a committed relationship!
2006-10-28 05:27:34 · answer #6 · answered by Kelli L 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2006-10-28 19:23:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hate to toss this out there, but maybe he isn't attracted to you and is using the porn so he can have sex with you. You knw remembering it.
Albert The Genius
2006-10-28 05:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Guys arent the only ones who play with themselves you know, girls get pretty busy too.
2006-10-28 05:27:03 · answer #9 · answered by Aniatario 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
trying to understand that is like trying to get a man to understand why we cry because it makes us feel good.
they're both pretty bizarre, but we do what we do because it is how nature wired us
2006-10-28 05:26:47 · answer #10 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋