my boyfriend is asking me make love with him several time, but i keep telling him i don't want to I'M NOT in good mood but he thought i was just kidding. he did try but I'm not into it to make love.
2006-10-28 05:14:38 · 19 answers · asked by Chimelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell him you want a girlfriend
2006-10-28 05:17:18 · answer #1 · answered by USMCstingray 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
This is a problem that is between the two of you, and you guys need to talk. Guys in general want to have sex more than women, although in some cases this is not true, most of the time it is. I would reccomind telling him that you don't like it, and perhaps working on some solutions to make it better when you do have sex. But if you don't like him, don't keep him, and don't drag the relationship on if there's nothing there. Otherwise, I think a good long talk will cure the problem.
2006-10-28 12:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by dumpsterdd90 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth that your not into it as of the
moment. And you dont want to do it if you dont
feel like doing it. Its better to be honest. But do it
in a nice way because he might think that you dont
love him and he might feel rejected
2006-10-28 12:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by jing 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are doing the right thing. Just tell him no. If he really loves you then he can wait a bit.
2006-10-28 12:16:55 · answer #4 · answered by Damien 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just look at him and say, I'm not in the mood, or your having menstral cramps, or its that time of the month.
2006-10-28 12:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by moose lover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u tell him that its not going 2 work out with all the sex. and if he wants 2 be in this relationship then sh should take it slower.
2006-10-28 12:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by ill eat u 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are on different pages maybe you should find a new boyfriend that you want to have sex with
2006-10-28 12:28:25 · answer #7 · answered by shawn w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that if he respects and really love you, he will wait for you to be ready.
If he cannot wait or is not willing to wait, then HE does not love you enough and thus it is not worth it to lose it to him, is it? ;)
2006-10-29 01:46:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear red under wear (says - on periods)
2006-10-28 12:18:46 · answer #9 · answered by shaikhmohdmusa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just dont have sex. If he does not understand then you dont need to be with him.
2006-10-28 12:18:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋