im married at 22 with the love of my life, ready to settle and buy a house but my sister has been overseas for 3 years travelling and seeing the world. she thinks i married too young, i think shes missing out on love. which one would you choose. happy married life or independant adventurous life
2006-10-28 03:56:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
why can't you have both - being happily married does not strip your of your independence and seeking adventure in your life you just have someone to share the adventures with
:)
2006-10-28 04:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First I would choose an independant adventurous life, then latter a happy marriage. I think 22 is too young to get married. You need time to grow, to have freedom and experience life. Only my opinion.
2006-10-28 13:12:42 · answer #2 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At age 22 I would choose an independant adventurous life.
I'm glad to read that you are happily married.
2006-10-28 11:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would choose the adventurous life till i was about 30. because i got married at the age of 20. I'm now 22 with a beautiful daughter and 3 months pregnant with my second one. Many days i wish i was single with the ability to do whatever i want whenever i want, but i have responsiblities now. Maybe if you don't have kids right away it would be better. Good luck!
2006-10-28 11:03:45 · answer #4 · answered by kooimanlora 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't miss out on the roaring 20's. I stayed single until 31. I found out whats good and bad during that time and choose the best woman. Married for over 12 years now.
2006-10-28 11:12:27 · answer #5 · answered by Mike F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it just depends on the person and how their heart feels. You obviously have strong bond with your love she probably hasnt found love yet, but dont worry it will happen. I would chose happy married because you can still be independent in ways and as a couple you can be adventurous too.
2006-10-28 11:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by raylenejade 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would take a happy married adventure best of both worlds
2006-10-28 11:17:57 · answer #7 · answered by shawn w 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on how old your sister is! You never know when the love of your life shows up, and you can always have some adventure with your loved one as well! I guess your sister hasn't found her love yet, so shes making the best out of it!
2006-10-28 11:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Haven't been through it, I would say independent adventurous life. 22 is yet young.
2006-10-28 12:51:13 · answer #9 · answered by DownAndOut 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
independant adventurous life --you had many years ahead of you to do the whole married thing.
2006-10-28 11:11:27 · answer #10 · answered by {{birthday girlie}} 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋