My girlfriend of 2 yrs is all off a sudden finding mistakes at watever i do.She said a lot of stuff that hurt me.When i ask her if i should wait till she regains normality...she says its up to me .She cant assure me that she will endup with me even if i decided to wait.Her reasoning is"no matter how much u love a person,its not necessary that u will/should endup with that person"I was really taken back when she said this.Is she indirectly trying to convey something?Should i hang on or just let her go??
2006-10-28 03:56:15 · 19 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Let her go - she's done.
2006-10-28 03:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by matters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you long been planning for the future but nothing constructive resulted? This may be the source of frustration and perhaps depression in her that has resluted in anger and she may be venting out by trying to blame you for the situation. She may actually believe that too and so play it cool. You need to take control of the situation now and not let her dump you or keep you swinging. Tell her seriously that since she thinks that you were the only one wrong here and that she has given more to the relationship that what she has got back, you are really concerned about her happiness and that you will let her decide the future of your relationship. She has three months to decide what she wants to do and contact you back anytime she feels comfortable and that you will not bother her in the meantime. This does not eman that you are angry with her but you don't want to be instrumental in ruining her happiness any further. If she doesn't contact you by that time, you will understand that she doesn't want to continue it anymore and from now on (and if she does not come back after three months), you will be formal as a friend. Then go and don't call back. If she calls you, be calm and understanding and formal. This control will give you the upper edge and even if she doesn't come back, it will hurt less because she will always know that it was not she who dumped you but you gave her a chance and she missed the opportunity.
2006-10-30 01:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What she is saying is apparently sensible. There is many a slip between the lip and the tea cup and there is no guarantee that your girl friend of today will be your wife tomorrow.
But as it is deviation from her normal behaviour, I think she is indeed trying to convey something very strongly. You need to take the hint. Better for you to go slow for sometime and observe if she is disinterested, time to part ways unfortunately.
2006-10-28 11:15:36 · answer #3 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be she is forced by her family to end up the relation with you. so do think aboiut the pastt things also. had she ever done this before or she is having some sort of stress. she may be worried about her future.
so don't let her go unless find the good reasons. just judge her and only then let her go ,
2006-10-28 11:05:03 · answer #4 · answered by R. S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man if you are smart run and run fast for she is never going to be straight with you.My daughters getting a divorce and is already "in love" dont wait unless you like pain go on with y oure life.
But if youre not ith her and she needs you maybe then y ou should try but run now!
2006-10-28 11:01:24 · answer #5 · answered by furby_lost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. She's trying to find a way to break up with you without being the bad guy.
2006-10-28 18:21:33 · answer #6 · answered by A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her GO!!!! Sounds like she is trying to tell her she is not happy with you anymore and is afraid to say it. Move on, there are lots of other women in this world who want and need love.
2006-10-28 10:58:24 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go... and move on. She wants to breakup with you, obviously. Please let her go... You will find somebody else who loves you better and makes you way happier.. There are plenty of fish in the sea!!
Princess.
2006-10-28 11:20:22 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh boy i'm really sorry for u....but its really clear from her words dat she doesnt love u anymore....i personally dont believe hanging on for her is of no use...better let her go!!
2006-10-29 23:56:00 · answer #9 · answered by Harish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her GO of course , its obvious she wants 2 break up wid u .
2006-10-29 06:26:13 · answer #10 · answered by darkangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go
life is too short
too many fish
2006-10-28 11:17:03 · answer #11 · answered by flowerbud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋