Hey well first off I'm not gay, bi or curious. I don't know how the hell it happened, but it did. We were celebrating the engagement, and were drinking alot. So the next morning I woke up, and my fiance's dad was next to me naked, and I was naked. I know what you're probably thinking. How do I know anything happened. Trust me I know. I don't remember everything that happened, but I remember some. I think somehow I got so drunk that I mistook her dad for her. I don't know what was up with him, but he was really drunk to. So anyway when I woke up, he was still asleep. I just got dressed, and left. I went home right away, and took a long cold shower. I can't believe what happened. I don't know what the hell I should do. I don't believe in keeping secrets from the people you love. I just don't know how or if I should tell her about this situation. I also don't know how to face her dad. I'm hoping that maybe he'll be so drunk that he wont even remember. Someone please help
2006-10-28 03:20:10 · 21 answers · asked by Twisted Pringle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My guess is that the father won't remember anything and neither should you if you get my drift
2006-10-28 03:23:31 · answer #1 · answered by osunumberonefan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I g et a strong feeling you're "sugar-coating" your role in this mess of a situation, and remember more about the incident than you even want to admit to yourself. One way or the other you are in a real pickle. As the much older adult your potential dad-in-law's actions, drunk or sober, were outrageous, and your own horse is running only half a length behind in the race for the prize. Even if you manage to keep your own mouth shut, who's to say your partner in crime wont get blazing drunk again sometime and spill the beans? One way or the other, I've got a horrible feeling your fiance is going to learn about it, so either. 'fess up at the f ront end and get it out in the open...... or be working on a r eeeal good p lan how you are going to deal with it somewhere down the road when it comes out and the you-know-what hits the fan.
2006-10-28 10:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by sharmel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm no dude the Dad was not remotely like her and you know it! I think you better do alot of soul searching:
Is her Dad openly gay? Because if he is then he will probably tell your girl. You are going to have to face him and see where that leads.
Maybe just maybe he undressed you cause it was hot; maybe nothing at all happened; maybe he tried and you passed out....There are a lot of maybes out there start with Dad.
You are so gonna have to tell your girl about the whole night. And if you were so drunk you ended up in bed with a man you need to think about not drinking and get some help.
2006-10-28 10:28:41 · answer #3 · answered by newtooocala 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do yo discuss absolutely everything with your faience? Like the colour of your stools? How big the last boogie you picked out of your nose was? How many pieces your poo breaks in when you go to the toilet?
Groooose right? well exactly. there are just some things that happen in your life that your partner does not need to know about. Are you a filthy lier for not telling her?
2006-10-28 11:12:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand it may be hard, but keep it to yourself. If you love her, leave it alone. Her dad will not say anything to you about it. I am sure he is feeling the same as you are. Just move on like nothing happened. You will end up losing her if you tell her. Stop drinking around other people though.
2006-10-28 10:23:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of let sleeping dogs lie. Say nothing to anyone about it, her or her father, just be cordial to her father, and remember never get yourself drunk like that ever again. You have to try and put this out of your mind! We all make mistakes, from time to time.
2006-10-28 10:29:41 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOD i hope this is a sick and demented joke!!!!!
Talk to the dad, I am a huge believer in not keeping secrets and you know this is so wrong it has its own category, but i wouldn't tell her a damn thing!!!!!
You really need to talk to Dad then run for the hills and find a new relationship to NOT screw up!!!
2006-10-28 10:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are dreaming, boy! No such thing happened.
This is the 2. time you ask this question.
If this really happened than my first answer
still stands. Get a life!
2006-10-28 12:12:11 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on Jerry Springer!
2006-10-28 10:26:51 · answer #9 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your and idot it doesnt matter haw drunk you get thats just an excuse if you did it with him there will be more so you probably shouldnt be married till you know for sure who or what sex you want to be with
2006-10-28 10:25:41 · answer #10 · answered by bj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋