I walked away from a relationship with my fiance' too many times.?

Question

She and I would get into arguments and when i couldn't handle them, I would walk out and spend time at my mothers. We have a baby on the way and I work 2 jobs, and I really don't have anyone to go to to vent or for advice, so I think some strees is involved. She told me to get my things out of the apartment we once shared and she has yet to call me. It's been a little over a moth now and the baby is due in April of ,07 and we were to be wed in May. . I really miss her and wanted to contact her but when I did that, she called the police. We have never hit each other. So what do I do in this situation?

Answer 1

Grow up.Sorry but you want advice I'll give it to you.If the first thing you think to do when you argue is walk out she is better off without you.She is having your child and you walk out at the slightest problem then you aren't ready to be a husband let alone a father.

Answer 2

Walking away during an argument does not resolve the underlying issues of the argument to begin with. Your ex-fiance is understandably upset by your childish behavior. For now let it go the baby will be here soon enough. She knows where to find you and when she is ready she will contact you. At that point the "2" of you should think about couples counseling if for no other reason than to be ready to co-parent even if you aren't together for the child's sake. Good luck

Answer 3

It would be good for the two of you to go to counseling, try and make this relationship work! Have you tried to call her on the phone? Well then send her a card, and try and explain, how you feel, how you miss her. also say. we need to learn to express our selves in a better fashion, we need to discuss things, and rationalize things, instead of blowing everything, out of proportion, shouting and fussing! Now if she call and wants to work everything out, go to a marriage counselor. please! Now if you do not hear from her, that means that it is over. May be it is just a cooling off she needs, so give it to her, leave her alone. In due time she may come back to you. Have some one pick up your clothing. That way she will not have to call the police.

Answer 4

It sounds like she is through with you. You cannot maintain a relationship by running away. Unfortunately, the only thing you have left is to go for therapy and get help for your inability to handle confrontation.

After a month or so of therapy, make another attempt to contact her and tell her that you are in therapy. If she still does not want you in her life, leave her alone.

Take care and Good Luck,
Troy

Answer 5

Hmmm!!!

First thing you try to approch her, dont hesitate everything will be fine

Only thing she is not talking to u because she doesnt see any good future for relationship .............Tell her you both can have a wonderful future and give a wonderful future to your baby....... share with her your concerns and dreams and hw u both can make things happen for the wonderful future

and hw your relationship grown over a time

and make persistant approach since this time she may take some time to change her decision......... and be close her as much as possible without irrtating her ..... she needs u she is pregnent

Have a faith in god he will help u out

Your love is true it will come out with flying colours

Answer 6

Try to get to know her better and be more responsive and responsible to her.
Start making plans to support the child in the event she decided she does not want you back
Do yourself a favour and put all those wonderful marriage plans on the back burner for a while. and finally, learn some new relaxing strategies so you can relax yourself while you sweat it all out.

Answer 7

beg and raise your child