2006-10-28 02:41:45 · 8 answers · asked by Fiorella S 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
When the world was new, it was a necessity to populate the earth. It was also obviously pleasurable, or people wouldn't still be doing it after so many thousands of years. Love and affection is a human necessity for good health. There have been studies done with orphans that have concluded that those orphans who are merely warehoused in an orphanage with no love or affection from other humans, do not thrive and will die. On the other hand, orphans who were treated well with lots of affection given were in good health and happy. So it is a pleasurable necessity.
2006-10-28 02:46:27 · answer #1 · answered by dbarnes3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always felt it was a "desire" rather than a "need." I've known people - my brother included - who has gone his entire life, well since he was about 28, without a companion. I've known others who have been married and have mentioned problems with their spouse. It's very difficult to keep a marriage or relationship going these days, too many distractions. Intimacy is nice, but at what price? Seems the bad part always causes stress and makes it difficult. This society of ours has turned out to be not so conducive to good healthy relationships. People are distracted, too many gadgets, lots of stuff traveling on the airwaves, 250 television channels, the internet, e-mail, cell phones....not to mention how Feminists are taking over and re-shaping our civilization and turning the sexes against each other. Back to my brother, he looks quite happy and pleased with his life. I too have been alone for a number of years, and I am not complaining.
2006-10-28 09:49:32 · answer #2 · answered by Morpheus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone will answer this question differently because intimacy is different for every person.
For some it is a way of expressing love to the person they love,
for others it is just about pleasure.
I don't think it is a necessity and should never be.
It should NEVER be forced upon you or demanded.
Of course, God designed it for our pleasure as well so I would say that if you are doing it for love, you are getting pleasure at the same time.
Hope that answers your question..
2006-10-28 09:48:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Morning. Intimacy is a necessary pleasure. In most cases, if you don't put out...someone elso will. I don't want to see that happen to anyone. Intimacy can be great fun. Enjoy your partner. Visit some websites, go to the "toy store". Surprise him...you may be uncomfortable at first, but your honey will love you so much more for putting forth the effort.
2006-10-28 09:49:59 · answer #4 · answered by pacifickitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is both a pleasure, and a vital part of feeling connection. It is an extension of your affection for your mate, and how most (men especially) can physically express there love. I think, though, that in special cases, when it is impossible due to disability or something else, then another form of intimacy can take its place. Like emotional intimacy.
2006-10-28 09:45:14 · answer #5 · answered by smashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intimacy is nessesary in a relationship.. far more than just pleasure. It gives you the connection; makes you feel close to the person. It doesn't have to be sex though... it can be cuddling. Or kissing.. just as long as you have that physical closeness.
2006-10-28 12:13:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being intimate is a necessity 'cuz everyone needs love! and as an added bonus, intimacy is pleasurable. that's what we all want!
2006-10-28 09:44:20 · answer #7 · answered by ShaneA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both. I think it's important to show eachother taht you care, and not just through sex. Cuddle every once in a while and embrace eachother.
2006-10-28 09:43:50 · answer #8 · answered by Harsh Noise Wall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋