ok, i get into arguments with my family members or with my friends and somehow i am always wrong. i'm never right with them and though you would think facts are objective, they always twist it to their favour... ok, i know it's hard to admit to have been mistaken, but come on...i'm going insane, i start overquestioning myself and in the end i feel i lose grasp of reality.... and though i'm generaly seen as a girl with a pretty good head on her shoulders, how come the people that are supposed to love you make u so miserable?????
2006-10-28 02:33:58 · 6 answers · asked by catharsis 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
thank you all, you all have great answers, you are all soooo right :) it's gonnna be hard for me to choose a best answer:))
stephanie, so i should give them a taste of their own medicine .. interesting idea
dav, you are right,but i can't afford to break away neither emotionally neither financially.
soccer coach, as much as i hate to admit it i care too much about what others think...
angel, that would be ideal... inner silence - that sound hard to achieve....
2006-10-28 03:17:08 · update #1
rico, i consider myself pretty mature.... and sorry to say it, but u can't just give up on ppl... thank you for ur answer thaugh
2006-10-28 03:51:06 · update #2
It sounds like you may be being verbally and mentally abused. People can have differing opinions and disagreements, but they can be nice about it. If they are making you miserable, something is wrong in the relationship.
2006-10-28 02:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hello, I appreciate your open mindedness and self checking attitude. The great answer in your question lies in the power of 'Silence'. Bcoz, during arguments there is always lose of truth from atleast one end, since each one use their 'intellect' to win over others and in that flow they try to take help of constructive / creative / hurting / overtaking words to exhibit the dominance of the argument. The best answer would be 'inner silence' at the time of emotional discussions. If we can create the environment and opportunity for 'Open Hearted' discussions rather than 'Open Minded' discussions ... theres going to be a great difference
2006-10-28 02:51:12 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First, you need to grow up! You are overly sensitive to what others think and say. Second, others can only make you feel as bad as you allow them to. Third, get away from the negative people in your life and find positive ones who will help build up your confidence. Like I said, time to grow up!
2006-10-28 03:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by rico3151 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
not sure but my boyfriend is pretty good at putting words in my mouth..then I sit and wonder what the hell he was talking about. Do what they are doing and tune out everything they say and just keep talking, soon they will be confused and wondering if they missed half the conversation and question their own sanity.
2006-10-28 02:37:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Being right or wrong in another persons eyes does not matter. What is important is what you believe in.
2006-10-28 02:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by Thanks for the Yahoo Jacket 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can't help thats how iam=(
2006-10-28 02:41:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋