my guess is beacuse they pretended of course but you owe it to yourself to deal with it
2006-10-28 02:31:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
i'm not talking about honest people. cause with honest and truthful people you dont get hurt. so obv. i have someone the opposite in mind. it's all about betrayal, right
2006-10-28 02:47:00 · update #1
I think its because we dont want to picture ourselves as unlovable.
If we feel rejected, or unwanted, its harder to accept that its not about us, its about a lack of interest, which, when you get older you will understand that you cant help, people not being interested. Its not your fault.
Granted, you should watch your behaviors, your manners, the way you communicate with people and see if theres a problem stemming from there, than thats just on account of fixing the problem.
If someone did love you and doesnt any more, its not that they've never loved you, its that things change, they change you change and the feelings change.
Keep in mind that just because someone doesnt like, or love you, doesnt mean that youre unlovable, that its because youre bad. Its just a lack of mutuality.
Theres always someone out there for everybody, someone that sees who you are, and can respect and love that, i think finding it is worth a little bit of rejection.
2006-10-28 02:35:56 · answer #1 · answered by mettophobic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its rht even myself to hav feeling like tht...
even rich person hav lots of money thy still wanted to be loved
which is more in poor n middle class family....
we even live for others...
4 evry action thinking we might be wrong r we will be praised..
just like tht
2006-10-28 09:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by SARATH C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is hard to keep loving them nonetheless, we most suffer because when we cant express our feelings.
2006-10-28 09:34:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u certainly owe it to yrself to deal with it, but it's hard cause everyone loves to be loved.
2006-10-28 09:32:30 · answer #4 · answered by disco ball 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might be denial, or the loved one just won't be upfront about it.
2006-10-28 09:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by beez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pride?
2006-10-28 09:39:14 · answer #6 · answered by stefan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋