my guess is beacuse they pretended of course but you owe it to yourself to deal with it
2006-10-28 02:30:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think some of you are misinterpreting my q.
i'm not talking about someone who's honest
i'm talking about those who like to play
2006-10-28 02:45:51 · update #1
because when you love someone you don't want to see anything else, the saying is right love is blind, your right tho, you do at some point have to deal with it
2006-10-28 02:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by CINTHIA C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a cycle, it's born, it lives and has the potential to die. According to what your saying love was never born because it takes the collaboration of two people to create love so that it can live. We all take chances when it comes to love, I did. Now I know that there's no guarantees. Based on where I am in my marriage now. I hope you realize that the situation your in is something only you can un-do, and that's by having a clear view. Open your eyes, but when you open them take your eyes off the person you claim to love. Cause right now you can't see all the love that's waiting for you, don't pass it up to love someone who doesn't love you back. I'm sure you value your self much more than that.
2006-10-28 03:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you love them,and it's hard to admit they don't love you, that would mean you made a mistake, that would mean you didn't see things you should have. sometimes we are in denial about someone we love. we can't face reality because reality hurts.people do pretend, they go into a relationship showing only their good side, and really thats not who they were,all along they were really someone else, and it's almost impossibble to see the truth. if you love them you are basing it all on how you feel about them. we do get deceived because we simply don't know the other person well enough.we haven't looked into their past and if we did we are in denial.it is hard to see someone we love in a bad light, hard to come to the conclusion that they never loved us.
2006-10-28 12:45:53 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard when u care for someone and they do not return the feelings. But you cannot blame them either. I am older woman in love with with someone who does not have the same feelings. But overcome it by loving this person as a friend.
2006-10-28 02:36:12 · answer #4 · answered by abbyrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose a self-centered viewpoint may be the most direct and honest explanation. Also, many of us have an idea of what we would like to have in said partner. So... if they convince themselves your it or vice versa, the change of plan is hard to accept.
2006-10-28 02:41:29 · answer #5 · answered by cari_pisces 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if you are attracted and you see it is mutual it is difficult for you to realize he is not in the same place. Well also because men and women are of diffent nature
2006-10-28 02:34:51 · answer #6 · answered by Chichou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's about not being ready to accept something that would cause us much pain.
2006-10-28 02:34:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody wants to be wanted because it feels good and helps your selfesteme. there's somebody out there that loves you but you just havn't gotten out there to find them yet.
2006-10-28 02:33:47 · answer #8 · answered by flaming_ichigo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cos we all need to be loved, and some-times we fool ourselves.
2006-10-28 02:35:11 · answer #9 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋