reason is because I have not talked to her for 2 years, but I invited her to my wedding- she's upset because even though we are friends I still should have asked- also she never has any money she still lives at home at 29- she would have had no money to buy her dress & I havent talked to her in 2 years- she brought this up now 3 times since the wedding what should i do? should i feel bad or no?
2006-10-28 02:27:02 · 8 answers · asked by bigsexy8232 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
tell her that you two have not spoken in 2 years..after two years you obviously are not close and tell her she would of has to pay for her gown up front..no loans or borrowing from you.
2006-10-28 02:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless there's more to the story than you're telling here then there's no way you should feel bad about it. You invited her to the wedding but you've not really had much of a friendship to talk of in the last few years so you had no obligation to ask her to be part of the wedding party. If that's the way she's going to be over it, then perhaps she's not someone who should be worthy of your friendship.
True friends respect the others choices, wishes them the best and is there for them no matter what.
2006-10-28 03:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by cgspitfire 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love someone, you take them 'for richer, for poorer' ie. whatever their financial state, you will support them. If he says he regrets his decision and you are still in love with him a second divorce is not necessarily off the cards - talk about it with him. Remember that if you decide to get together this would cause his new wife as much grief as you have felt over the past two months since he remarried. If on the other hand you know that getting back with him is not an option, I would simply advise minimising the amount of times you have to see him, go out with your friends and enjoy yourself. Don't sit around at home feeling sorry for yourself, that doesn't help anyone in the long run. Best wishes :]
2016-05-22 02:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..... I look at it like this.. If you guys were really good friends before two years then you should have asked her to be your maid of honor, and should have even paid for the dress, because its YOUR wedding.. You are suposed to be paying for all the food and everything! BUt thats only if you guys were good friends before.
On the other hand
If you guys were not that good of friends then... I dont blame you!
2006-10-28 02:32:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't feel bad. I hate it when friends do this. Its your wedding day, and you have who you truly want. Its not a popularity contest or who you like best, she needs to grow up. She should be happy for you and your marriage, not constantly throw it in your face. If she brings it up again, just say "no offence but you have made your point that you were upset, but it is what it is, and its done and over with, so could you please sstop bringing it up, and just be happy about my marriage." Don't worry too much about it, its rude of her.
2006-10-28 02:34:42 · answer #5 · answered by shrimpseys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't 3 the limit? If you would have asked her to be the maid of honor, then someone else would be complaining. You can win. No you shouldn't feel bad.
2006-10-28 02:33:31 · answer #6 · answered by three6ty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the reason why, if she can't handle it, don't talk to her anymore. She is obviously a selfcentered childish loser.
2006-10-28 02:30:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was YOUR wedding not hers....don't let it bug you!
2006-10-28 02:38:03 · answer #8 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋