May i request that only males answer this time plz?

Question

what is it about porn that you find so addictive. would u still look at it and jerk off every day if u were in love with someone who took extra care of herself, looked after u like a king and adored u no matter what u look like???

Answer 1

I suspect that you, like many women, feel threatened when your significant others JO's...why? This has NOTHING to do with you, deprives you of nothing, is NOT a substitute for anything that is going on in your relationship. IF you were NOT getting enough sex, that is one thing, but it is far more usual that there is more than enough sex going on between the two in the relationship...yet, when the guy does himself, many, many women get bent out of shape...again, WHY? A guy JO's, does not have to lay there in Post Coital 'afterplay,', does not have to say, "thank you, you were great," or anything else for that matter...it is "get it up, get it off, get going." AND, it feels damned good, no worries about pleasing someone else, etc. There is more than enough room for all of this, and porn adds to the experience...harmless in most cases, big deal. Men are visual as hell, get off on mental imagery, and when by themselves, they are not interupted by words, moans, worries about anything but themselves. Again, so what? I really do not understand why women are so jealous of this, and that is exactly what it is. A woman may not want sex, may say "not tonight," but gets bent out of shape if the guy whacks it off! Get real...this is harmless to the relationship. Hell, IF men were honest, I suspect that if you asked them what was the first thing they did when their wives left the house for a shopping trip, they would say...beat off! Porn is a problem to very few who become addicted to it....it is part of our society...we discourage sex between youth, 11-13 year olds (and in fact, until they are married), the guys end up making a habit of JO with a magazine, and women expect it to magically disappear when THEY are ready to do the deed....you expect far too much, my dear. habits formed in youth last a lifetime. good luck

Answer 2

I think that they would Genie.

It is far more addictive than anyone lets on.

I used to work on the railroad and the vehicles were stuffed with porn.

Nearly everyone looked at it several time a day.

At some point i realized that it affected the way men view women drastically. Me included, and I did not like the change it created in my thoughts about women.

I realized how damaging this was to both men and women so I started to clean all of it out of the trucks and burn it.

This made me highly unpopular with many of the guys who were most addicted to it. I also found that there was a silent minority that agreed with what I was doing. It mostly amounted to smiles or nods of agreement. But it was unmistakeably supportive of what i was doing.

Even now these images can catch my attention. I need to be constantly aware of what they can do to me and my view of women if I am not careful.

love and blessings Don

Answer 3

I agree with Jon X about this not being in the right category, but I'll answer anyway if you're interested:
I'm not addicted to porn (I've got a few DVDs but not loads), but I like masturbating because it feels good. Maybe I do it a bit less if I am in a full-time relationship with lots of sex (because I don't have the time!), but I still do it, and I would expect my boyfriend to as well. It's just fun to do, what's the problem?
If your problem is not with the wanking, but with your man's (presumably) obssession with porn, then I don't know. Maybe it is addictive, and that can't be healthy.

Answer 4

Hmm, I'd have to say the interesting thing about porn is the women, oh and the sex.

I've never known a woman who was excruciatingly careful of her appearance for a reason other than personal vanity or a desire to control the behavior of others. I've never known a woman (or any other person for that matter) who was always considerate and undemanding. I've never known a woman who didn't editorialize about and try and alter men to suit her preconceptions of what we are 'supposed to be'. (Your question is a perfect example of the latter.)

Dammit people stop using u as a substitute for you. Are you too lazy to hit the other two keys? Is the time saved worth coming across as being mildly illiterate?

Answer 5

I am voyeuristic. I enjoy and am sexually aroused by watching other people have sex. I enjoy the prospect of peering into other peoples sexual lives. In porn movies the women and men are usually both very attractive. Great bodies, wonderful faces. watching them have sex is a great experience for me.
As to your second question I am engaged to a woman now who is far more then any woman I have ever seen in a porn. I still enjoy watching porn. But I have found far more stimulation in it watching it with her. We watch it together and get turned on more then I ever have in my life. We have been together two and a half years now and still have the sexual energy of a two month old couple. So it works for me. But everybody is different.
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Answer 6

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Answer 7

Men are visual. We like to fantasize. We like ACTION, not boring DETAILS. Porn gives us HOT ACTION. No thinking involved. No emotions. No dramas. It is ESCAPISM. We have very short attention spans. Porn gives us IMMEDIATE action without the SENTIMENTALITY of LOVE.

Why do so many women watch Bold And The Beautiful and read trashy Mills & Boon romance novels? FOR THE FANTASY. That's what porn means to us. FANTASY.

Answer 8

well the problem with us men i think is that we can't wait were to impatient but offcourse when it comes to serious love we still adore and care for the one we love and care for.But shown in a servey once only 60 percent of men still look at porno when in a relationship and the 20 percent sometimes do and 20 percent don't.

Answer 9

Porn for men is the same as romance novels are for women...what more is there to say...it's the truth of life...if you don't like the way men are maybe you don't like men?

Answer 10

No; porn is only a substitute for lack of love in your life.