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2006-10-28 01:56:39 · 30 answers · asked by weezzze 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is Hypothetical!!! Sex only situation. There are no children involved. Marriage of convience. ANy one have experiences to share instead of judgement calls?
2006-10-28 02:30:27 · update #1
I've thought about it, almost did it, looked in my husbands eyes and couldn't do it. It's not worth the pain and humiliation you will cause yourself and your Husband. Think of the pain you would see in his eyes even if he forgives you the pain is still visible for a long time.
2006-10-28 02:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I learned the hard way when you bring other people in your marriage, it may be satifying, thrilling and fun for a while. but when it hit the fan, it hits it hard. Avoid the whole concept all together. If you are not ready for a committment sucn as marriage don't do it. If your married PLEASE STOP close that door before u open another one. NO matter what there is always concequences. We may not see it, or care at the time but pain will come in the long run. It takes forever to get over it. It is never forgotten and it scarrs homes and people for life. So much hell and pain from Unauthorized pleasure. Watch yourself. The truth hurts and do not want to be heard by others. You may even get mad about it. But THAT IS THE WAY IT IS. I AM SORRY. Avoid the HELL. Please
2006-10-28 03:00:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I do not see any good to come out of this. Either you are the one cheating or the one being cheated on. This is never a healthy way to begin a relationship. I can not think of anything positive about beginning a relationship with a married person, if he is cheating on his wife and not respecting his relationship and the vows that he made. Or as a married women you would be cheating on your husband and not respecting the vows you made. I say if it is that bad it is time to get out, you don't begin a relationship with one still going on. Never a good idea. I would not be able to trust a man who cheats on his wife, that would not be the man I would want. I am not so naive to believe that he finds me so special. That is never the case, he/she just cannot or refuses to control themselves. This is not a good foundation for a relationship, cannot trust someone who is not trustworthy. Most men date married women because they know they will not have to have any strings attached, just a good time, usually involving strictly sex. Why would you want to be someones toilet. Good luck and God bless
2006-10-28 02:03:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you look up the word "cheating" in the dictionary, there are NO positive definitions....cheating is bad no matter in what context it is done. Cheating while married is even worse. In marriage there are promises made, commiments. So not only are you not being true by cheating but it also makes you a liar and untrustworthy.
If you're thinking of doing it, please don't....not only do you throw your own life into a tailspin, but you also ruin somebody elses who didn't get the choose that for themselves.
2006-10-28 02:03:20 · answer #4 · answered by secret_oktober_girl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No good for marriage. Usually it is done by cheating spouse because of the underlying problem within the marriage, which the other spouse does not recognize. If cheating is detected, most of marriages are divorced, It takes 1 to 3 years to heal the emotional wounds, if it is possible at all.
2006-10-28 02:02:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Should not have gotton married, if the need to cheat is there.
There is a reason the two people got married. If one has the urge to cheat-something is wrong- WORK TO MAKE IT RIGHT- and need refind that reason they gotton married in the first place. If the cheating has already happen, that one needs to be humble and repent the mistake and OWN to they past vows given
2006-10-28 01:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by mymack79 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No problem with it, deny everything, after all it's all about you. And if he does find out you still get 50/50 split if you have children you can have a 80/20 split. Then the boy friend can move in with you. You won't have to work. It's all good girl........go for it. But remember deny everything no matter what. Deny. Deny. Deny.
Good Luck to you.
2006-10-28 02:09:06 · answer #7 · answered by brp_13 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are thinking about cheating then your marriage is doomed it is a matter of time before you get a divorce just get the divorce before you start sleeping around it is the right thing to do.
2006-10-28 02:06:19 · answer #8 · answered by beer30_somewhere 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cheating should never be done. If you feel the need to cheat seek some Godly counsel. Only bad things can come from cheating.
2006-10-28 02:47:23 · answer #9 · answered by Julie J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is a lot more to the question then what we are reading.
Okay....first thought....Do you love your Hubby> Why not take everything you are "thinking" about doing and do it with him.....add the excitement you are seeking to what you all ready have.
Curious...Curious George always gets into trouble...:oO
Best wishes
2006-10-28 02:29:50 · answer #10 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋