i am 6wks pregnant and i have bleeding, ive been to the doctors who said i COULD be losing the baby, i am abit confused on this matter. whats your opinion on this one?
2006-10-28 01:38:06 · 14 answers · asked by c_monkey832003 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
coming from a multi-miscarriage family, i'll say that there is nothing clear that dictates what causes losing a baby. the healthiest women in the world have lost them, and the most drugged out alcoholics have managed to keep them. i don't think logic applies. that being said, this is the time to stick close to your doctor and make sure you know exactly what is going on and if there is anything you can do to increase your chances of keeping the baby. scary time. i wish you the best.
2006-10-28 01:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by The Beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not your fault if you loose your baby, sometimes these things happen, and when a baby is concieved they know if they will go to full term or not. Its sometimes just not the right time, maybe there is something wrong with the genes and that why its happening, but then again you may not be losing your baby. Many women bleed and the pregnancy continues. I lost my first baby and I blamed myself, it made it terrible hard to bond with my son I concieved only 2 months after I lost the first one. Its perfectly normal to be confused as you have just found out your pregnanct to have it up in the air and maybe taken away from you. If you do loose your baby then thats just the way it was ment to be, and that baby just wasn't ready to come thats all, nothing you could have done to prevent it. I feel for you completely as its a trrible feeling, do you feel like your a fauiler as a women because that was what i felt. I was dervistated and I still 5 years later think about the baby I never met. I have got a gardian angle on my bedhead that is dedicated to her, and I know now that she is still with me when I need her, I syill have days when I grieve for her but it more because it helps me deal with the fact I never had the chance to meet her.
I hope your bleeding is for another reason other then miscarring, I really do but if you are its not the end of the world, it may seem like it but you need to deal with it the best way you can so it doesn't take over your life, and you should ask the doctor to make sure its not an incomplete cervix so you have a much better chance next time. If you have as much bed rest as you can and don't have sex then the bleeding may stop by itself and the baby still be there. Don't stress over it until it happens as it could just make it worse putting extra stress on your body at a very vunrable time. I wish you all the very best.
2006-10-28 02:36:09 · answer #2 · answered by mj_missi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to try and be calm and not stress yourself out too much over this. I know it is hard but the thing that I learnt with my first pregnancy is that you have no control over what your body does or does not do when it comes to pregnancy. With my first pregnancy I bled a few times within the first trimester and then again just before I had the baby at 6mnths. I was stressed out, scared and really annoyed that it seemed like no-one could tell me what was happening or how to fix the problem. But... after months of letting things happen the way they were to go, everything turned out great. My baby was healthy and has no prob's even though she was 16 wks early. I know it's hard, just try and relax and what is supposed to be will be. Also I am now 11wks and I have not had any bleeding this far. So fingers crossed. Things can go better the next time over as well. Look after yourself and best of luck.
2006-10-28 01:45:16 · answer #3 · answered by naysie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
During my second pregnancy, I bled really heavy every day until I was in my 8th month of pregnancy. I had to go in to the see the doctor every two days to have blood drawn. They were watching my protein levels to make sure they weren't going down. Instead, they gradually increased (which meant I was still pregnant). Yes, I had some cramping, too. Now, my daughter is 12, and I carried her full term. I was on bed rest the entire pregnancy, which was hard with a two yr old running around. When women miscarry, it is usually because something is wrong with the baby's health. I have miscarried, and it was devastating, but I know that God had a better plan for that child. Listen to your doctor, and stay off your feet. I hope your doctor is going to keep an eye on you, and the baby. God Bless
2006-10-28 01:58:22 · answer #4 · answered by Dawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the doctors made any positive suggestions as to how the baby might survive?
In the event you do miscarry (which would be a tragedy for you), I would only say that many women go through this. Find your own 'support network' of family and friends to console you - and don't stop thinking about the future when you will carry a child to full term.
I'll be thinking good thoughts for you. Take care.
2006-10-28 01:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by lesroys 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on how much bleeding you are experiencing actually. If the heart beat is still detectable I would think that things are still doing alright. I've known of women who continued to have periods during their first trimester. And that is not all that uncommon actually. I had spotting during the 8th week of my pregnancy with my 2nd child. He was born 7pds 11oz, 21 inches long, and healthy as could be!!
Just try to relax. I know it's hard, but stressing will make things so much worse. Just continue to take care of yourself.
Good luck Sweetie!!!
2006-10-28 01:46:49 · answer #6 · answered by lil_hem_n_va 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A little bleeding in the first tri-mester is somewhat common. However if your doctor is concerned you should think realistically. Alot of times the baby aborts itself because there is something wrong with it. It is normally however very traumatic for you. There are lots of resources out there, I wish you luck.
2006-10-28 01:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by Crazy n Confused - PHSYCO 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You could be losing the baby. Sorry if that is what's going on. I've been there twice. But it may just be heavy spotting. Just remember that no matter what, God knows what he's doing, even if it's not what we want to happen.
2006-10-28 01:51:43 · answer #8 · answered by mizzgov_08 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My mum want me to abort but i born n the day she told me that i am living with the guilt that i am unwanted child...shud i say same thing as you Why me always...
Dear everything happen for a reason i know its easy to say but hard to live but you have to thats life...we have to live..so dont get depressed...believe in god it always had something gud planned for us...i'll also pray to God for you...And please consult ur doctor if needed take second advice....Remember u shud remain happy so that baby born healthy..leave it to God he will take care of everything....calm down ...Gud luck..my wishes and prays are with you
2006-10-28 01:55:46 · answer #9 · answered by Angela 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had practically my normal period for the first six months of my first pregnancy. My Baby was born healthy. Hopefully that is what's hsppening with you. Good Luck!
2006-10-28 01:45:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋