My wife has been opening up lately about her fantasies, mainly consisting of being somewhere in a short dress and a guy starts touching her then leads to hot sex. she has also started wearing tighter cloths and strutting her stuff more lately..( she is a very hot woment) we have been married for 17 years and were happy. I think she is starting her sex drive late is it normal for women to open up about there fantasies and stuff?
2006-10-28 01:22:40 · 19 answers · asked by needingitnow342000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wife is 37 years old and she is very hot.. she has never had much of a sex drive in the past. It seems to be coming on now though. I like her telling me her fantasies, it is very hot. I also like how she kinda plays out the part a little as far as being so open about how she feels, and the thought of guys watching her walk and how it turns her on and stuff...
2006-10-28 01:31:04 · update #1
Problem i have and the only reason i have questioned it is i am the kinky one, she has always been somewhat prudish and now she is changing all that. i have for years tried to discuss fantasies and stuff with her but she has always kinda balked at that, she has never really been much into sex anyway. She was when we were in High School and the first 4 or 5 years we were married then she kinda didnt enjoy sex much. now she is approaching 40 she is really starting to get into it..(which i love....lol) she is starting to get as kinky as me...lol just wondering what was triggering it.
2006-10-28 01:47:37 · update #2
Maybe she's giving you the hint to do something a bit more "hot" to her!!
Everywoman has fantasies - but if she doenst tell you, how will you know what's going around in her mind!!
Play out her fantasies - dont be a stick in the mud!! lol
2006-10-28 01:27:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every woman on earth has fantasized about some explicit sex fantasy that she may or may not have been too ashamed to talk about. Keep in mind that fantasies are a normal and healthy part of our sexuality. They are either taken from past experiences or may even be entirely imaginary. Sometimes these fantasies are taboo, or socially unacceptable, therefore they are only available through fantasy. But the modern woman marvels at sex and sexuality.
It is normal for woman in late thirtieth to be sexually more active then in earlier in life.
2006-10-28 02:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is normal for women to have those fantasies & unfortunately those fantasies can become reality. I think the problem here is that your wife can be bored with your love making & to fix that, you must be able to try different stuff during sex(do kinky things,etc) or take her somewhere she's never been before & explore together this wonderful world with live in.
2006-10-28 01:42:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you two should try some role playing games. Have her go to a night club in a short dress you come in 10 min's later buy her a drink, Fulfill her fantasies. Weather it is roll playing or something else that brings spice into your marriage it is OK as long as it makes the two of you happy. And as long as it only involves the two of you.
2006-10-28 01:31:15 · answer #4 · answered by Lucky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the hint. When you are out somewhere, and its appropriate, step up and give her the fantasy. Thats why she is telling you, she wants to spice it up. Step it up! A womans sex drive peeks in the 30-40 range
2006-10-28 01:27:13 · answer #5 · answered by shrimpseys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is very normal that woman, as they get older become more sexual. I am going through the same stage right now. it is wonderful. If you are worried about possible other interests..becuase of this change..I don't know what to tell you. I dont think she is looking outside of the marriage, i think she is just openng up more to you as i have with my husband. good luck and enjoy
2006-10-28 01:36:08 · answer #6 · answered by KaLee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she is telling this to you and not going out dressed like you say she is dressing, maybe she is just trying to spice up your marriage. I would take advantage of it and maybe take her out on a date and come onto her, etc. just like when you first starting seeing her. Women do get a stronger sex drive in their 40s and sometimes as they get older. Good luck to you both. Hope this helps.
2006-10-28 01:26:59 · answer #7 · answered by Libragal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's her age. I was the same way in my late 30's now in my mid 40's I don't care if i ever have/want sex again. but that will change.. { is this a good enough anwer for the Jerk that is reporting me, for no reason at all.}
2006-10-28 01:33:19 · answer #8 · answered by 'Cause I'm Blonde 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fantasies are not really a big deal unless you cross the line into reality- getting other people involved- your wife's body chemistry is changing- hormones and all- and yes sometimes that will make one feel more sexergettic- perhaps she has been reading up on the subject for you- and maybe she feel you need her to be this way---- enjoy your wife!!!!!
2006-10-28 02:08:50 · answer #9 · answered by drox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman is in her sexual prime at 37! It takes that long for us to get comfortable with our bodies and our sexuality. Just hold on and enjoy the ride. Try to keep up so she stays satisfied.good luck
2006-10-28 01:49:14 · answer #10 · answered by Lynda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋