Hello. Several months ago me and my wife decided I should get circumcised to improve our sex life. After the initial soreness and discomfort I thought sex felt fantastic! However my wife said she hated it. This has obviously led to problems and we have now seperated. The problem is that when I had the op we decided to keep the removed flappy bit of skin and frame it. My wife wants to keep the skin as a reminder of the good times but I want to keep it as it looks great on the mantlepiece. She now says she would be happy to split it with me but i am not so sure. What do u think I should do?
2006-10-28 01:07:49 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-10-28 01:10:33 · answer #1 · answered by emma m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cannot believe she talked you into having it cut off you! Sounds mighty painful, I can understand you wanting to have it, but why does she? Bragging rights?? She made you cut your private area & now she wants to show it off, her power over you???? Even though I'm a female, I am on your side, dude, you keep it & IF YOU FEEL GUILTY, give her a little piece of it, but not even half, just a tiny,pee wee amount!
You have suffered enough, had she never been with a guy that had been circumcised before? For it's totally different feeling, than a guy like you who is all "natural".
What do you say when friends come over & there is part of your manhood sitting on top of the mantle? It's a bit weird, or freaky. But to each his own. You deserve to keep it, it's part of who you are! You must have had a very understanding doctor to keep that skin for you, most of the time they won't keep any removed body parts. I tried to get them to keep part of my cancerous tumor & was flat out told NO. Good Luck, God Bless! :-)
2006-10-28 01:39:40 · answer #2 · answered by Cyndy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa...if it matters so much, why don't you go ahead.
But framing it and putting it on the mantlepiece is wierd - do people who visit want to see that?
If you agree with my opinion on the wierd part, let your wife (ex?) keep it. For her, its a memory. For you, its just nice to look at.
2006-10-28 01:13:02 · answer #3 · answered by keti2609 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That has to be the strangest, weirdest and funniest story Ive ever heard! A framed foreskin?? Hmmmm........;o)
Anyway......if shes splitting up with you just because of your sex life, then thats a bit sad. Doesnt she love you as a person, and not because of what youve got down there??
Oh yeah, back to the point.......keep it......she doesnt deserve it and it was YOU who went through the pain of having it done anyway!
Hehe ;o)
2006-10-28 01:15:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yuk! Throw it away!!! It's like keeping a placenta after having a baby or toenails after cutting them. If you had so many good times, why are you apart? I reckon she wants it as a trophy!! Besides, splitting something so small is pretty difficult!
2006-10-28 01:38:54 · answer #5 · answered by Pixxxie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had you neglected some days of showering formerly that? Cuz it may desire to be smegma, that's in actuality a white mix of crud that builds up over the years. in simple terms rinse it in water, yet once you sense it quite is a project, see a doctor.
2016-10-16 12:02:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you should have custody of the foreskin as it WAS attached to YOUR penis at the beginning of the relationship, much like having a child of your own BEFORE you met her.
If she wants a foreskin I am sure there are plenty of Doctor's that would be more than happy to accomodate her in that area. :-)
2006-10-28 01:17:27 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep the house and let her have all the foreskin she likes.
You can come up with something better than this
2006-10-28 01:55:17 · answer #8 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A foreskin is like chewing gum - better to share
2006-10-28 01:10:13 · answer #9 · answered by timginjapan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have custody of the foreskin but allow her to have supervised access to it at weekends lad.
2006-10-28 01:18:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How bizarre! This would be a great Judge Judy thing.
2006-10-28 01:17:36 · answer #11 · answered by mrfrosty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋