2006-10-28 00:44:27 · 10 answers · asked by Polash 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
ALot of women never have any babies and do just fine and then there are some that never feel satisfied in life because they couldnt have a baby. Most women want to experience the feeling of carrying a baby inside them for 9 months and then holding the new baby. Some of those then soon find out that having a baby is not going to be oh how cute and precious for long and regret ever having a baby which is really sad. Just because a woman can have a baby doesnt mean that she is going to be a good mother either. Some no matter how rotten thier baby turns out to be love them with all thier heart. I think when it would get ruff for a woman not having a baby is when she is older and realizes that there is no one there that is going to care for her in her old age or just the fact that they are alone and no grand children either. Some wouldnt want it any other way. Like I said it all depends on the woman.
2006-10-28 01:05:33 · answer #1 · answered by hersheynrey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, a woman's value and worth is not based on a baby. It's based on who she is and how she lives her live. It is only essential if the lady wants a baby. If she doesn't, it is not.
2006-10-28 09:02:01 · answer #2 · answered by paula r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many women just don't have the maternal instinct. They do just great. It is the person that wants to have a baby and doesn't that feels a lack in their life. You would not feel a lack in your life if you truly didn't plan on having a child at some point in your life. Many women just choose not to have children.
2006-10-28 07:54:45 · answer #3 · answered by oneflynangel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Each person chooses their mood. If they choose to be happy, they will be, regardless of life's circumstances. While I love my children and my family, not every couple should make the same choices I did about having a family if they feel it wouldn't be a good choice for them. Having children is wonderful and indescribable, but some people just weren't meant to have children and that is okay.
2006-10-28 08:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by I ♥ EC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if she wants children or not. If someone doesn't want children I say bravo for making that decision and not bringing an unwanted child into this world.
But if she wants children and doesn't have them, there will always be that ache in her heart wondering what type of mother she would have been, what her babies would have looked liked, who they would have grown up to be.
You have to remember that wanting children is natural!
2006-10-28 08:57:20 · answer #5 · answered by lil_hem_n_va 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. Motherhood is wonderful, but only if it is something you truly, truly want. If not, it isn't fair to the woman or the child.
I know lots of women without children with happy, fullfilled lives. They know they made the right decision for themselves.
And hey...we're overpopulated as it is.
2006-10-28 08:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ofcourse. having a child doesnt define a woman or make you a woman. its a want. some even feel its a need, but for them not everyone. it all depends on what you as an individual wants. but if you decide not to conceive than its not going to take away your badge of womanhood.
2006-10-28 08:02:14 · answer #7 · answered by chrisarea_99 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one ever said that it was a women's obligation to have children. As far as doing ok, yeah. That just means that you save money and don't have to worry about your kids.
2006-10-28 07:48:01 · answer #8 · answered by mizzgov_08 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I guess its different from woman to woman, but having your own baby completes you in a way you cant describe.
2006-10-28 07:48:28 · answer #9 · answered by Jordy[♥] 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course she can.
2006-10-28 07:47:27 · answer #10 · answered by anonymous 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋