i kinda feel im looking at this realationship wit blind eyes
yah think i should leave him alone
aint nothing wrong in the realtionship
jus age
as fo the males could yah tell me why you would put your self in jeporady fo doin time fo ah 16 year old gurl an you got ah baby an might have 1 on the way
yea i might be pregnant
2006-10-28 00:11:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have to wonder what's wrong with a 21 year old male that he can't form a relationship with someone from his own age group? There are men that deliberately seek inexperienced people because they can control them. That is not love.
Legally as you know, your "boyfriend" could be sent to prison for having sex with a minor. Even if you consented, it's still rape in the eyes of the law.
It is also VERY irresponsible on both your parts to engage in unprotected sex. It amazes me how many teenagers think they are being clever and adult yet risk their whole future for a few seconds of unprotected sex.
You need to stop looking for a father figure and figure out your own future before you start playing house. If you're smart...
2006-10-28 00:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this dude is a horn dog and has never heard of safe sex (using protection, condoms etc.) and is irresponsible because he has one child and not married, I assume and now you may be having his 2nd child, that you know of. I am sorry to say your situation is not good. Open your eyes and seek professional help, from your parents or social services. Having sexual relations with a minor is against the law in most countries.
2006-10-28 07:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by Whynotguy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as too old in any relationship. But personally I don't agree to the fact you have a baby at such a young age coz you may face more problem in future
2006-10-28 08:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is too old. He is at a different point in his life. When you are 25, and he is 31, the change is not that big, but you need to concentrate on school, and he needs to concentrate on supporting his kid(s).
2006-10-28 07:15:09 · answer #4 · answered by just browsin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's fine, just tell him your friends on Yahoo asked if he could please teach you how to speak and spell before the child is born. That way, you won't raise another generation of ignorant 14-year olds looking for love in all the wrong places!!!
2006-10-28 09:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep you are too young, maybe you should have used protection,
Good luck with the baby.
2006-10-28 07:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by Cameron in OZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he's too old for you. That's statutory rape. I really hope you're not pregnant. He should get his *** kicked.
2006-10-28 07:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are too young for him.
2006-10-28 19:00:49 · answer #8 · answered by A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is too old. it is illegal.
that would be like asking if you're too young to smoke crack.
2006-10-28 07:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by Tom O 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋