Wanting to sleep with a woman isn't the same as a meaningful, deep and intimate relationship with someone of the same sex. Lately, my reasoning is this: Men are gay (psychologically speaking) because there may have been an absent father in their crucial stages of life and an overbearing mother; hence, most gay men are in fact mama's boys. My mother was never around as a child, and my father has been a hard *** as long as I can remember. I've always had a better relationship with guys (I have absolutely no female friends), so I'm wondering if that combined with the reversed-gay-theory means I am in fact gay. Is my uncontrollable attraction to women dictated by my early childhood, or rather just another stress on my hormones that should go away by the time I'm 25.
2006-10-27 23:39:23 · 13 answers · asked by Alexandria 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You know deep inside if you are lesbian or not. I think it is different if you are just attracted to women and if you really want a relationship with a woman. Attraction i think accures in most women. Now if you want a relationship then one might think that they are. But I don't think you should worry about it to much. You might just be in the experimenting stage. If you are meant to be lesbian i would be proud. It's who you are!! Good luck!!
2006-10-27 23:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by ambee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer think of so. I study someplace as quickly as (I overlook the place) that ladies sometimes develop into involved in different women because of the fact they do no longer seem to be happy sexually by way of adult adult males (no longer asserting it is genuine in all circumstances, so i'm no longer attempting to generalize right here), and that ladies are evidently extra in song with different women's bodies and what women choose/choose sexually. You reported you're sexually annoyed on your relationship inclusive of your boyfriend, consistent with hazard you're wishing he may be extra in song with you sexually. that ought to be the reason of the needs. As for being earlier sexually involved in a girl, sexual decision is alongside a continuum, this ability that no one is one hundred% heterosexual or gay...there's a level of the two in each and every individual; one decision is frequently extra effective than the different (different than contained regarding individuals who're bisexual). in easy terms you be responsive to for beneficial while you're a lesbian, yet in line with what you're asserting, i might say it is extra approximately sexual themes on your modern relationship. wish this facilitates.
2016-12-08 22:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by amass 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 26, I've been attracted to women (or figured it out) when I became an adult. I sleep with men, have relationships, but only in the past have I fooled around with women. So you're curious, or bi in some sense... Women are beautiful, sensual, and soft...men are handsome, hard, and rough...
It all comes down to this.....I have to have the d***
2006-10-27 23:50:54 · answer #3 · answered by eurazianbeauty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop analysing everything! Your head cannot control your heart - so all that about 'absent female presence' may or may not be true, regardless of whether it's so or not you still have feelings for women. If you want relationships with women you want relationships with women. Be true to yourself.
2006-10-27 23:42:54 · answer #4 · answered by Mordent 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are gay, most people have feelings for the opposite sex in some way,I read that in a survey once. its OK. Just be who you are, experiment. what the heck.my x girl friend who had our baby likes womens also. so what.go for it. if you wont to.
2006-10-27 23:43:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being sexually attracted to women seems to be the main "symptom" of being a lesbian. If you are, you are. Don't sweat it or try to over analyze yourself. If you like women, you like women...that is all. At least you like something and that's a good thing.
Be happy and just like what you like.
2006-10-27 23:43:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey ! What do you think "lesbian" means !!!??? It means you're sexually attracted to women. (duhhh!)
2006-10-28 02:04:33 · answer #7 · answered by Maewest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go find a woman...have sex with her...and find out.
2006-10-28 01:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U could just be straight curious, and if ur bi or lesbian, that doesnt matter. enjoy it
2006-10-28 00:06:19 · answer #9 · answered by ca4btts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may be gay. do you seek women or men. if you seek women then you are gay. if you seek men ,,,well you may be bi.
2006-10-27 23:50:42 · answer #10 · answered by delrock43 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋