I do not wont a wife to work, nor have much say so in a marrage, I make the major decisions.of course I love and respect and keep her safe , would never hurt her, &,I worship her,and wont the very best for her. and the children.is this an out dated way of being, are should I change, to conform to the news ways in society.
2006-10-27 23:34:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Better "a male chauvinist" than a softy...
Women like strong men... and:
If You are really that tough You
have earned a big
sweet BJ !!!
2006-10-28 00:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
a real grenade of a question nowadays, everyone has an opinion on this subject.
I dislike the term chauvinist, it is one of those contrived words like antisemitism and homophobic, that is always used as a put down and to render the accused maximum guilt, they should be dumped forever.
you are endowed by nature to be protective of your mate and to care and provide security,too many view it as an old fashioned concept,and is right up front in the gender war and used as a stick to pummel the male with.
however, it should not be an absolute to the point of beating ones chest in dominance, we must all see the middle ground at times and as partners try to reach mutual agreement on domestic matters that will enhance the harmony and well being of the family.you are probably a healthy alpha male and you don`t always have to bend to each daft theory that is spouted these days, but learn when to give and take without feeling threatened.
2006-10-28 07:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by Sentinel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be a true Chauvinist is not a bad thing at all. For there are a multitude of woman Chauvinist out there as well. For I have been told walking into a store, By a women saying I don't need a man to open my door or to assist me in sitting down. And I can open my car door all by myself, and if a man dares to send me flowers they will be place into my garbage can. So if it is ok for a woman to be a chauvinist them why would it be wrong for us to be one. But to be a true Chauvinist you must never be ill mannered toward a woman. Also if you feel that you have to defend yourself against a woman words then you are not a true chauvinist at all.
As for me if I don't know that lady and she wishes to argue with me for what ever reason, then she will just be arguing to my back as I walk away.......... Another thing is a true Chauvinist will never strike a woman, Her boyfriend is another story For I have seen many men just stand there while his woman argues with another man, Where has his self-respect gone off too, for I could not just stand there while my wonam tries to provoke a fight that she can't win or maybe at another time be harmed be by that same man who could be waiting to ambush her when I am not there to protect her. Nor do I like the idea of my woman belittling herself by arguing with a numb-nut. That my friend is a true chauvinist... So good luck and always show respect for yourself and other........
2006-10-28 07:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is more than outdated. It is incredibly frustrating for me as a woman to hear that people think this way. Imagine for a moment being a woman. I know it isn't easy for you, but try. And try to do it without your pregidous getting in the way. Your mind is still yours. You still have 100% competancy and you still have all of your abilities. Maybe your upper body strength isn't still there but your legs are strong as hell. You can have children, but you can also be the CEO of a major corporation, or a weightlifter, or an artist. The point isn't the occupation, the point is the choice. Men and women are not the same, I would never claim that they are. But they deserve the exact same treatment as far as working is concerned, and as far as their role in the home is concerned, as men do. I am in a very happy relationship where both partners cook and clean, and both people can have the jobs of their choice. Both are college educated and capable people. Neither one assumes to be more intelligent or capable than the other. Each love eachother equally and without conditions, like the ones you want to place on your wife. Remember that whoever she will be, she is human. Just like you. And she comes to the relationship with expectations just like you do. And if you end up loving her, you must be able to compromise your expectations in light of hers, like she will probably have to do for you. Be prepared for disappointment if you maintain your current expectations. You were lucky enough to be born in era without slavery, don't try and force it on a woman. I can promise you, you wont have good results.
2006-10-28 06:50:02 · answer #4 · answered by liz n 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i guess some girls would like staying at home =. But you will limit your self to less girls to chose from. You would have to find a girl that's mom stayed at home.
I want to have a voice in the decisions I want a career and children. i also want a guy that pitches in with the house work or helps with the children, I want to be respect and worshiped,
I guess you might say that the guy i want will be special and I will adore him and respect him also,
2006-10-28 06:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by Wicked 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I'll tell you the same thing I told a woman who thought she was a lesbian and was wondering if that was okay...
Be yourself and like what you like. Don't over analyze yourself. If you like a certain kind of relationship...go for it. Find a woman who likes the same thing and there will be some around...always are.
Relax. I wouldn't be attracted to your arrangement but there are people out there who would be.
2006-10-28 06:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
no you are very good man but the society now does not admire who is like you,iam with you in that,if your wife respects your act thats very good and keep as you are.
2006-10-28 06:49:50 · answer #7 · answered by lostship 4 · 3⤊ 3⤋