Hypersensitivity and insecurity define you, but if not for them, you wouldn't work nearly so hard to be the mensch that you are. Despite your impeccable intuition and instincts, your fear of failure and rejection thwarts you from setting and achieving goals. Hence the important role that supporters and admirers play in your life. Since you're incorrigibly impressionable to the perceptions of others, seek believers and encouragers. Strong, confident personalities who catch your eye tend to cross your path recurrently. Cultivate relationships with the safest, most emotionally securing of these potential mentors. An assertiveness trainer can show you how to conquer your passive past. A loving relationship is your link to being the best that you can be. Each stride you make will work synergistically with the next because the more secure you become, the less comfort you'll find in melancholy. You may eventually cease to subordinate your own happiness and pleasure to that of others. You'll always run to the rescue of troubled souls. But as you build a nest with someone who soothes your own troubled soul, you'll live less vicariously and ever more vigorously.
2006-10-27 22:55:44
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answer #1
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answered by franxie03 4
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The Crab
Modality: Cardinal
Element: Water
Ruler: the Moon
Season: Summer
4th Sign of Zodiac
Metal: Silver
Stone: Pearl, Opal
Color: White, Yellow
Anatomy: Breasts, stomach
Keywords: gentle, conservative, feeling, nurturing, defensive, contemplative.
Comparison with the Cancer symbol, the Crab:
A crab is able to walk or run sideways. Similarly, Cancer natives can sometimes "move about" in life, in a figurative sense, in an indirect manner. The crab's body is covered by a carapace (shell). Cancer natives are self-protective and sensitive, and often retreat into themselves when hurt. Crabs are able to resist changes in the environment, thereby protecting themselves from hostile elements in various habitats. Similarly, Cancer natives are thought to avoid too much change, and to be on the defensive. Crabs have "complex behavior patterns" (1). The inner world of Cancer natives is thought to be rather quirky and complex. Some crabs "conceal themselves by decorating their bodies with plants and animals" (2). Cancer natives tend to try to blend in with their environments, preferring not to make a big splash in life.
2006-10-28 06:17:04
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answered by Anonymous
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I'm a double cancer. I used to be like that, too.......very shy ect. But you'll grow out of it. It might take a while though? I am not only NOT shy I can strike up a conversation with a total stranger and in less than 5 minutes we will be talking like 2 long lost friends. Needless to say I have a lot of frieinds now. Like I said you'll grow out of this shyness thing.
2006-10-28 08:19:57
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answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6
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Watch those claws!
Try to be more in touch with your intuitive side when it comes to peoples feelings.
My daughter is Cancer, she'll tell my mom she looks young then follows it with,but its because of your makeup (those claws!)
(someone like a Scorpio might find that amusing and not bother them.)
I try to get her out of her shell but She prefers to spend most of the time in her little corners happily playing alone
Yet she need lots of hugs to make her feel secure. very cuddly
Family is very important to her.
As for grown women the best man is Pisces then Scorpios just remember to get out and have fun once in while
2006-10-27 22:49:28
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answered by MamaJupe 5
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well girl you are soo lucky that you got a bf he himself is more than enough for you...but anyways there is nothing abnormal in being feeling odd in talking with strangers coz its normal for every1....anyways if u feel anything like that ..u can ask ur bf coz hez tha best thing of which u can be proud of and who can help you best!!
2006-10-28 04:55:05
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answered by Anonymous
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Charm, Charm, Charm. Use your charm I do ,make other person feel comfortable at all times. Make them smile and talk about things they are interested in.
2006-10-28 02:17:10
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answered by James P 1
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i'm cancer guy and i'm Anti social too lol!!!
i get along with the people i already know but hard to make new friendships.
i agree with angel too.
2006-10-28 01:33:59
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answered by Anonymous
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I'm terribly sorry to hear of your recent diagnosis. Fortunately much can be accomplished with modern chemotherapy, radiation treatments and mystical Swahili incense to combat your cancer. I wish you the best of luck in fighting this devastating disease.
2006-10-27 22:44:28
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answered by polyglot_1234 3
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i dun tink being social anot depend on ur horoscope...it depend on you...
you should not be shy wif strangers but treat them lyk ur best friend n chat wif them happily.After tat,i'm sure u'll haf many friends...
2006-10-27 22:43:05
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answered by mrsdongwan 2
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be a bit moure friendly.......ur a shy person and very sensitive and maybe feels really hurt but doesnt let out ur feeling to anyone...................... try to talk to every1 and remember u have a good sense of humour......use it
2006-10-28 01:38:23
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answered by Anonymous
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