My mates are spliting into groups?

Question

help please!

Answer 1

i`m afraid this does tend to happen, you will know which friends you want to spent time with.

Answer 2

Its fun when you are in a big group, you feel secure and don't have to have a particular best chum. But what happens people views and lifestyles change, before they may have tried to conform and not been true to themselves. It is a natural progression to break off into smaller groups when you feel more confident and may find the conflicts too much grief.
The best thing to do is be normal spend time with who ever you like, but remember be loyal and don't disclose anything between the groups, you don't want to be a spy or go between.
Be the most mature one of the bunch tell each group how you feel and that sometimes you will spend time with them and other times you might not--don't be FORCED to make a choice, and remember maybe you might like a friend but not their new group values. If their values are sh*t then you must decide whether your friend is really worth it ---or wait till he/she matures.
When you are older very rarely will you stay in touch---so they only important for your current needs time frame, Don't depend on them so much, perhaps go out more, take up a new hobby and meet other new friends, as you going to change your views as well.

Answer 3

At the risk of sounding condescending - this is what happens when you are all growing up and developing adult identities - everybody starts developing their own individual views, opinions and ways of looking at life, and therefore friendships change. Very unsettling isn't it? Can you still remain friends with them all and have the benefit of two groups of friends? Or are they forcing you to choose? If so, go with your gut instincts - don't choose friends based on popularity or kudos, stick with those that stick by you and that you share something in common - hobbies or opinion, they're more likely to be around for years to come!

Answer 4

well find the group you are more suited in like the ones that you get on with the most, talk to your friends and tell them whats going , they probally dont even know that they are splitin up in groups they just got use the people they are hangin with.

Answer 5

this happens to everyone 4years ago ihung around with over 20 people we were all this big happy group then over 1summer we went in to 4or5 groups, now idont hang around with any of them except my best mate istill talk 2most of them, but ihave anew group of friends everything happens for areason

Answer 6

it's better to have a smaller group than a larger 1, so just go with the group that you like most or that is mroe interesting to you. you become alot closer with them when your ina smaller group.

Answer 7

i think there may be some conversation gap
May be they r not getting to talk to each oter openly.
I think u should arrange a gather up party n try to sort out the problem by talking to them

Answer 8

Go with the ones most like yourself.

Answer 9

just be friendly to them all and let them get on with it.

Answer 10

try to be friend with them all