well what can i do about my husband...i really adore him...but i have more sexual desires than he has...that what i feel....and i dont want to cheat on him...and at the same time i dont want to get a divorce i really adore him....what can i do...
2006-10-27 20:59:51 · 11 answers · asked by caramella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Assuming that you are not comfortable about talking about it to him, try other ways of signalling to him, your heightened sexual desires.
Also try to think what is the cause of his low sexual desire. It could be anxiety, depression or challenges he faces in life. Try to be a part of his activities and relieve his anxieties & resolve his challenges with tact, chances are that his sexual desire will heighten, as he would want to be with you most of his non-work time
Good luck
2006-10-27 21:39:31 · answer #1 · answered by rvsasi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in the same position with my husband for the last 5 years. I just deal with it, I find other things to do and distract myself. Like you I didn't want a divorce and cheating wasn't an option either.
You might want to sit him down and talk to him in a non-accusatory manner and find out if there is a reason why he isn't interested like he once was. I found out that due to stress and worrying my husband was having problem with ED and was embarrassed by it. So talking was a good thing and we are still working on making things better.
2006-10-28 09:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by neinmom2one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress up sexy. buy some really sexy ling. from Fredericks of Hollywood. Where some prefurme. Play out a fantacy. Watch some prono. use whip cream or chocalete fudge. Give him head. Make him do whatever he wants to you.
2006-10-28 04:03:47 · answer #3 · answered by Super Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you adore him,but do you love him?Adore and love are totally different things.If you adore him,you'll probably cheat.If you love him,you won't.
2006-10-28 23:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like its time for you two to have a very serious talk.
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2006-10-28 04:06:33 · answer #5 · answered by ~*bUtteRFy~*~kISSeS*~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to him? I hear that helps a lot.
2006-10-28 04:14:34 · answer #6 · answered by X M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex alone is not the base of marriage.
2006-10-28 04:15:25 · answer #7 · answered by Pirate of the Bassein Creek 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ALL MAN TOUGH ONE.. TALK ABOUT IT TO HIM. MAYBE IT'S A HEALTH PROBLEM ..DO THIS BEFORE YOU CHEAT. I KNOW YOU MIGHT GET TEMPTED. DO YOU HAVE YOUR EYE ON SOMEBODY ELSE??
2006-10-28 04:45:20 · answer #8 · answered by pretty me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-28 04:03:27 · answer #9 · answered by samatha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't base your marriage on sex!
2006-10-28 04:06:27 · answer #10 · answered by pemberley2189 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋