i have a friend that makes plans to go to a movie or out to eat or to go to one of our houses and she gets hall hyped up and excited about the plans. but once we are there she seems bummed out and she doesnt want to be there. she has a bad attitude and brings the rest of us down. when we ask her what's wrong she shakes her head and says nothing. why would someone do that? EVERY TIME?
2006-10-27 20:43:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She wants to be the center of attention. If she acts like she is bummed out, then everyone will ask her "What's the matter?" Therefore she is attracting ALL of the attention, and the whole world is centered on HER. Maybe you need to STOP inviting her to go along with you and yor friends so yall can have a good time without having to wonder if she is having a good time or not.
Also sounds like she might have a good ol' case of ADD or ADHD??
Good Luck.
2006-10-27 20:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Some people picture things to be as they plan but when they see the actual result they get bummed out about it
2006-10-28 03:55:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
The rush she gets from organising everything is maybe better for her than the following through, some people seem to just be like that, without intending to be rude or inconsiderate. Ask her if this is how she feels.
2006-10-28 03:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by renclrk 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
She might have a some type of social anxiety disorder, saying she is stupid or wants to be the center of attention is not really fair
2006-10-28 04:05:39 · answer #4 · answered by Lcpl. Burress 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she's stupid
i had a stupid friend like this also
and she behave damn sucks
i think it's normal to c these kind of creatures in this world
maybe there are even worse..out there
as for me, i just dumb her and do my own things
watch out! this type of people might drive u insane..TRUST ME!
before u get really mad, better u stay away from her
2006-10-28 03:49:17 · answer #5 · answered by claudiA^^ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is trying to have fun and then it turns out not to be her cup of tea.....i would quit hanging out with her for awhile and see how she acts when she is stuck home all the time while you guys are out living it up....she will come around
2006-10-28 03:47:44 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i have a daughter in law that acts the same way .
2006-10-28 03:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by tia c 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
mayb theres a person thats botherin her that must o fbeen where ever u or ur friends were
2006-10-28 03:45:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was gonna write what Z_lee wrote already, so.... why dont you ask her outright...it might give you a little clue.
2006-10-28 03:52:46 · answer #9 · answered by Mark n 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is just fooling you, its an attitude problem
2006-10-28 03:46:19 · answer #10 · answered by mhykz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋