I'm very scared
2006-10-27 20:08:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Are your marrying your child's father and just worried about strain abd tiredness during the wedding? If this is so, try to wear comfortable clothes and keep interaction sessions with guests as short for you as possible. Plan a light party. If it is not your child's father you are marrying and your soon-to-be husband is ignorant that you are pregnant, your should try to gather up courage and inform him of the situation. A SMS will do, jsut ask him to be a little considerate while dealing with all the anger and frustration you have caused him and that you will try to explain the situation when he calms down a bit. If your husband is not the father of the child but knows of your pregnancy, then too, you should take care of yourself. Do not wear high heels in all the cases. How advanced is your pregnancy? More advanced stage means shorter ceremony and more care. Avoid using a big trail or any rituals, in which you may stumble. Add details for more appropriate advice.
2006-10-27 20:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to get married? If you're not sure, then wait.
In society today, you don't have to get married just because you're pregnant. You can still wait to know whether its right for you or not.
Don't let anyone push you into this if you're not ready. It's ok to take your time.
If you do want to marry him, then relax...it's normal to be scared and nervous. These are huge things in your life! A baby, a husband...lots of changes.
Just be true to yourself, no matter what. I married once, and KNEW that I was doing the wrong thing. It was the biggest mistake of my life, and it wasn't fair for my now ex-husband either. I should have been honest with him and true to myself.
Hang in there, and best of luck.
2006-10-28 03:12:35 · answer #2 · answered by Amy N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your soon to be husband doesnt know I would tell him soon. Your wedding day is supposed to be the happiest day of your life. But so is having a baby. If you arent ready to have this baby then you and him need to sit down and talk about it.
If he does know and you are worried about being to stressed out with the wedding then you should have someone else take over for the mext couple days and you need to do something for you. Go to a spa or sit at home and do something you love to do. Your wedding day will be perfect just the way you want it to be. Dont stress out to much.
Good luck with everything!!!!
2006-10-28 04:56:14 · answer #3 · answered by gail_andress04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think this is the right guy don['t make a mistake by marrying him, sometimes we let our emotions take over and we loose our brain. If you love him and he has supported you through the pregnacy then stick by his side, of course you will have your ups and downs we all do. Follow your heart and do what you think is RIGHT. Good Luck =) Most men run when their girlfriend gets pregnant so I hope you realize that he it trying to be responsible.
2006-10-28 03:13:06 · answer #4 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the problem with this? Why are you scared? Are you being forced to marry this man because you are pregnant or are you marrying him because you love him?
Do what is right by you...
2006-10-28 03:38:47 · answer #5 · answered by wickedly_funny66 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pregnancy can be scary. My wife and I just our first baby 9 months ago. We were both anxious about it but I will tell you the hospitals and nurses have done this literally a million times. It went very easy and our baby is healthy and happy.
Marriage has been great. We are partners for life. We can depend on each other. We have hard times on occassion: money, family, or whatever...but we have each others back.
2006-10-28 03:15:59 · answer #6 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the big deal? Unless your husband to be doesn't know your pregnant or it isn't his baby, or you two are marrying just for the sake of the baby, which isn't a good idea. Congrats. and quit worrying.
2006-10-28 03:14:33 · answer #7 · answered by sweet.pjs1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why should you be scared, Pregnant women get married all the time, you are not the first.
Make your day special and feel the joy
2006-10-28 03:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HOW OLD ARE YOU??? HOW FAR ALONG ARE YOU?? YOU DIDNT GIVE ENOUGH DETAILS FOR US TO HELP YOU. IF YOU ARE OVER 20 AND THE MAN YOU ARE MARRYING GOT YOU PREGNANT--CONGRATS AND DONT WORRY ABOUT IT
2006-10-28 07:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by kimandkaitlyn2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what should you do? start preparing to be Mommy. You are overwhelmed at the moment. It will get better and exciting.
2006-10-28 06:30:35 · answer #10 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋