I am always being told bad stuff about me and that im this or this.My friend is constantly taking her anger out on me and it makes me feel bad.Many other ppl are always hurting my feeling too, but they are mostly my friends. What do i do?
2006-10-27 19:15:57 · 13 answers · asked by dramahotty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Stand up for yourself. What type of friends treat you that way? When I was in Psychology class and many other relationship classes we learned, You are the only one who can allow someone to hurt you. You need to look at how you feel about yourself, If you feel poorly about yourself, and others see that, that is how they will treat you. Ask your friends why they say what they say. Might ask if they really feel that way about you! See what they have to say. Good luck!!!!
2006-10-27 19:23:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to tell you this but people will always treat you like this if you let them!
They are using you as an emotional punchbag to make them feel better about themselves and this is wrong.
what you have to think is ,that you are special and it's wrong to use your friends like this.
Take them to one side and tell them how hurt and humiliated you feel and that you wont put up with it any longer! If they continue, next time they do this shout" Oh that's right,take your insecurities out on me" or better still " F*** off s**t breath".
Soon they will realise you wont be walked all over and if you lose their friendship, so what !!
2006-10-27 19:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by lovemeister 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 01:17:07 · answer #3 · answered by wheelwright 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be subconsciously beating yourself up by staying with these 'friends'. Try hanging with new people and you will feel what it is like to be around NICE people! Try try again if it doesn't turn out great. There are nice people out there!
2006-10-27 19:28:14 · answer #4 · answered by TwilightWalker97 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i think you should try to either tell them that they're hurting you or find some new friends that help you feel good about who you are and who you could be. To be a good friend you need to have a good friend.
2006-10-27 19:23:15 · answer #5 · answered by rickys_lil_mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't preach to you. But I will pray for you.
You are worthy of respect and love. As you age you will find true friends are rare and precious. Be true to yourself and others.
I hope your life holds may blessings.
2006-10-27 19:24:58 · answer #6 · answered by firefly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would start hanging around other friends. They don't sound like "friends" to me!
2006-10-27 19:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find new friends. and start holding your ground. if u not going 2 do something then they going keep talking bout u.
2006-10-27 19:22:11 · answer #8 · answered by datprettychick16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go check out some positive self affirmation book, tapes, videos and start building your self esteem. This will help you, trust me. :)
2006-10-27 19:19:21 · answer #9 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET NEW FRIENDS!!! Real friends would not treat you that way. It sounds harsh but true.
2006-10-27 19:18:51 · answer #10 · answered by luluhinalbwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋