is it bad that i hate bisexual people?

Question

i don't mind anyone else. i mean its cool if ur gay and its cool if ur lesbian but i guess i feel like u should choose.
and hey if u end up getting married u are that one! so choose!
and stop lying to yourself.

Answer 1

bisexual men spread AIDS to women and children

Answer 2

Choose who you feel attracted to? How can you choose to feel anything?

Now, you can choose to act on feelings, and I think that's what you're getting at. You may be under the mistaken belief that all bisexual people have polyamorous relationships (i.e. a boyfriend and a girlfriend at the same time, hence eliminating the need to choose). This is not at all the case. Some do that, but then again, so do some straight people and some gay people. There are many monogamous bisexuals, married bisexuals, etc. who don't engage both sexes at the same time. If you are against polyamory, then that's a different matter completely separate from bisexuality.

If you end up getting married, you ARE choosing one over the other. That is, one indivdidual over every other person on Earth. You are saying that you love that person, are committed to them and creating a life together, that you are sexually attracted to them and want to celebrate and officialize that. Please don't boil a bisexual's marriage to a choice between men and women. In that case, it really doesn't matter who they chose, right- just any stand-in representative of that gender, correct?

Let me put it in a differnent way. I'm bi-hair-sexual, as many people are. I find blondes and brunettes equally hot. I fall in love with a blonde and marry him/her but does that change the fact that I like both hair colors? Or does choosing instantly make me a 'lover of blonde hair', and that only? I don't think so. The same for married bisexuals in heterosexual relationships, or committed bisexuals in homosexual relationships. They are not the orientation of the couple, but still bisexuals.

Those are my thoughts on the matter, and I hope they help elucidate the subject. I don't want anyone to hate bisexual people; they have enough of a bad rap as it is.

P.S.- I wouldn't use phrases like 'stop lying to yourself'. Unless you yourself identify as a bisexual who did indeed stop lying to yourself, your lack of experience in the matter ruins your credibility. Not understanding the feelings and attractions that a bisexual person does will inevitably lead to such conclusions as you have made here, if not done with compassion and empathy.

Answer 3

They are not lying why would you think that they are lying to themselves? Love is a feeling you can't control when is it gonna happen or happen to whom? Maybe they just found that both men and women are attractive, this is not lying. And you're talking about choosing, we all have to choose throughout our life, so maybe you only found men are attractive, but you still need to choose which exact guy to wanna settle with. So for bisexual people, they are just choosing the same thing. THE ONE, doesn't matter who they are, man or woman, but the one who they really love.
If you start to look at this whole bisexual thing based on love, then probably you will change your point of view =) peace out V

Answer 4

Well its bad to hate, because your hate eats at you andimpacts your own well being and does not bother anyone else, unless of course you committ a hate crime. So you can hate as much as you want and it will not change anything in the world.

What business is it of yours if some other person loves Mr. A today and Ms. B tomorrow. That person is expressing love for a particular person. You see being Bisexual has nothing to do with making a choice, it is purely about meeting another person of whatever sex and being able to feel an attraction or fall in love.

There are no lies unless the person cheats on a spouse or lover. As whom ever they are with at any given time is simply who they want to be with and the gender just does not matter to them.

SO that said, why not spend your hate hours on a worthy hate if indeed you must hate. I can give you a list of worthy hates if you want....

Answer 5

gosh, how lucky YOU are that not everyone is bisexual, gay or lesbian. at least you will have your friends in the world but i am sorry i cannot be in your eyes a friend cos i am a lesbian. my advice is that you take your hate maybe out on some of the straight people as i often find them to be more repugnant than many of my friends. but in the end, we all have people who we may not like, but they dont worry us because most of us know how to handle the situation and we just move on with our lives .. check your heart to make sure it is beating and then just try being a friend to all .. my blood is the same colour as yours, i am sure .. charise

Answer 6

I partially agree with you that some hypocrite bisexual even criticizes gays or lesbians which i can hardly find it so disturbing. One of the acquaintance i knew is married but still want to be known as the real guy but when he sees macho men,he became so f -cki- g melting and became so girly and when he talks to gays,he kept on attacking their lifestyle and saying they are wronged, so i'm not saying this to all bisexual but some are just simply Moron and so irritating.

Answer 7

I'm straight, but I have a bisexual sibling. Doesn't make any difference to me. Some people are straight, some are gay and the rest are somewhere in between, I guess.

Why should it bother you? (That's meant as a serious question, not to hassle you)

Answer 8

It is bad to hate anyone. Especially because they aren't like you or because you don't approve. It doesn't make you look any better or make you a better person. What does it matter to you, what other's do, say or believe in. You should learn that the world is full of all kinds of people and that each has a right to his/her own life.
Diversity makes the world richer and your hatred, makes it poorer.

Answer 9

it's cool q coz i always hated bi ppl,i think the human should choose wether to be straight or be gay/lesbian ,but bein bi means that if they have the same sex as a partner then they r still lookin for straight partner..
personally i would never accept to have straight gf,coz once i choose her to be my gf,she should find me enough and not go and look for a man wiv the excuse that she is BI

Answer 10

To me, Whatever! But to a liberal person your freedom of speech is in jeopardy especially if you are a white male. I consider myself a conservative democrat say whats on your mind and the offended person will tell you to mind your own business.

Answer 11

yes, it shows a lack of tolerance and acceptance on your part. It also suggests that you hate people for no rational reason. This is especially weird because you don't mind other sexual preferences.

Stop getting worked up about other people,

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