This is purely hypothetical.
2006-10-27 18:54:42 · 64 answers · asked by shaydn e 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not if he's your husband it's not/
2006-10-30 04:38:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not married to the man in question, then yes it is very wrong to sleep with him, even just the once!
There are so many reasons why and am sure you know them if you dig deep, which is probably why you're asking the question in the first place.
If you've done something you regret...doubtful that this question is truly hypothetical.... then face up to it in your own thoughts, accept the consequences, learn from this and MOVE ON.
2006-10-27 22:55:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is wrong to sleep with a married man. He is taken and probably has kids as well. You will not be able to trust this guy ever so there really is no point in making a mistake. I would hate to know that there could be a possibility of breaking up a family home for sexual gratification. There are so many men out there I would rather have a single one then a married one.
2006-10-27 20:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The answer depends on the relationship that man has with his wife and vice versa. I have seen plenty of relationships that were over long before a divorce occured. Specifically, a woman left a man but refused to divorce him because under certain laws it entitled her to a great deal of money. They had a child together. She slept with other men and had boyfriends. He waited for her for 3 years for the sake of their child, gave her numerous chances, while getting a divorce met his current wife. If that is the relationship a man has and is (truly) in the process of divorce, there is nothing wrong with sleeping with a married man. However, if this man has a family and wife that supports him, then it is abominable to sleep with him.
2006-10-28 11:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anna C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hypothetical or not, it's wrong to sleep with a married man or woman.
2006-10-27 19:37:32 · answer #5 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hypothetically, if someone else other than yourself was to sleep with the man you were married to - would you think that was alright?
Consider also......
If a married man was to sleep with someone other than his wife :-
Where else is he putting it about ? Putting both you and his wife at risk.
Do you really want to be with a man who's so spineless and deceitful? If he can't be honest with his wife, what lies is he telling you?
Do you have so little self respect that you are willing to be with a man that doesn't know the meaning of the word?
Will you truly be convinced that he won't ever cheat on you one day?
IF and its a big IF he did leave his wife for you (because they very rarely do) - could you put up with her being in your life until their children have grown up and could you be happy knowing that a large chunk of your household income is going to his ex wife for up to the next 25yrs?
Still sound like a good idea?
2006-10-27 19:33:44 · answer #6 · answered by Little Jake 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It isn't a matter of right or wrong / good or bad. It is a matter of lust, trust, betrayal, money, values, beliefs, etc. All of this will enable to guide their life in a way that brings them peace and happiness. Fortunately, we are all different. What we do have in common thought are the desires which nature gives us. It is natural to want to mate with an attractive partner, where marriage is a man-made institution, beyond the laws of nature. Maybe marriage and sex aren't always related. You decide.
2006-10-27 20:36:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not if he is your husband. If he is not that makes you a..wh... ! Unfortunately there are many women who think its great taking someone;s husband away from his wife but they do not realise the heartache, the devastation worse than a cyclone, the torment and the hurt it leaves in the family's life and the resulting trauma the children feel at the family being broken up. Never ever let this thought come into your mind for a second. Remember if you do this to someone it will one day come back to you.
2006-10-27 19:13:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it's wrong but not only because of the moral reason. I say it's wrong because the cheater has shown that commitment means nothing and he can't be trusted.
If he would leave his wife for you, you'd ALWAYS have to worry about him cheating again, because, after all, that's how you two met. Would you really want a life of second-guessing every move?
2006-10-27 20:04:05 · answer #9 · answered by messageboardjunkie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wonder why you are asking if it is purely hypothetical? Surely, if you are a reasonably sensible teenager or adult, you must know that it is wrong.
If you are still undecided why do you not ask your parents? Whatever age you are, and whatever age your parents are, i think i can guarantee that they would say it is wrong. And why do you not want to ask them? Simple - because you know it is wrong!
2006-10-27 22:29:52 · answer #10 · answered by Caroline 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hypothetical, i think not. maybe you should ask yourself why would you want somebody elses man. do you have such a low opinion of yourself that you are grateful for any low life coming on to you. think again. find you own man and hope he never turns out like your married scumbag.
2006-10-31 08:44:58 · answer #11 · answered by Veronica C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋