There is this one game that students play at my school called zap. Someone writes a name on your hand and a time. You are expected to ask that person out on a date by the time written. I usually don't participate, but a couple of my friends do and I think one guy is going to ask me out. How do I figure out whether he's gonna ask me because of the zap or because he really likes me? (He's kinda rude to me and I don't really know him at all. I used to know one of his friends really well, but I got mad at him because I liked him but he started dating this one girl I don't like and now he's kinda being manipulative so I'll be interested. When my friends say hi to him, he acts really badly and completly ignores us; especially around his gf. I'm still afraid to talk to him because of his new gf. I have an odd feeling though that the original guy is not gonna ask me out now though because I kinda gave the signal that I wouldn't go out with him.)
2006-10-27 18:40:34 · 12 answers · asked by gamerzaddiction 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
The question is, should I go out with him? And, how do I know if he is asking me out because he likes me instead of zap?
2006-10-27 18:44:17 · update #1
I don't think you should go out with him. If he really wanted to go out with you, he wouldn't be rude to you. Also, if you ask him why he is asking you out, he is likely to say because he likes you even if it is because of zap.
2006-10-28 06:19:46 · answer #1 · answered by pgw410 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh ,lolol, we have zap! ours started in what about 5th grade! lol, umm.. well, i think you should kinda talk to him like he IS your boyfriend, and just like be a lil' stingy toward him but make sure when you're feeling a strike of jealosy that you make sure he knows, lol, then after about a week of it or whenevr you get tired of "acting" (which u might not ever) then ask him who he has been zapped to ask out, then slowly and not exactly, ask him has he been zapped to ask you out. you can get into this convo by asking him does he like you and stuff but to avoid him not talkin' or a mushy-gushy convo talk about someone else gettin' zapped or even better tell him you are zapped to ask out some guy who is preferably hot and likes you, but tell him your friends told u that if someone asked you out seriously that you wouldn't have to ask out the other boy. it's something that i have found to be very effective w/ boys and it's kinda pay-back for all the "reverse-pyscology" they play and the mind-games they play but it's all fun and a different kinda way to flirt and stuff. hope things work out for you
ps: if it turns out he doesnt' like u brush it off, and play it cool and dont' be too heart-broken ...... if you probably ever will anyway, cuz i doubt you will, lol good luck
2006-10-28 07:24:56 · answer #2 · answered by John Cena's Wifey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pressure-Dating (such as "zap") usually is more of a hassle than it's worth. It sounds like you have already answered your question--but, to be sure, if he's rude to you, then, no, you should not go out with him. The rudeness and manipulative behavior he has shown is a clue that he might be alot worse than just that (i.e. physically abusive maybe?). Best to be safe--just say "no".
2006-10-27 19:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by Mudcat007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he asks so, ask him as the zap game or for real. And if he's not going to ask you out, stop agonizing, especially if you don't like him because he's rude. sorry, the whole thing is rather complicated. just let what happen happen. i wish i had better advice, but good luck.
2006-10-27 18:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh zap, that was banned from our skool.now were not allowed to have anything on our hands (not even a drawing a of say a flower). but it did get pretty bad. i never participated though. ppl were callig ppl fat, cow patty, anorexic mess, ect. o wat was the ?again o yeah! dont go out!!!!!
i guess our skool plays zap a bit differently than urs-or maybe the same, i cant belive i cant remeber from last year!
2006-10-28 05:38:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only go out with him if you like him! even if he isn;t involved in "zap" you dont have to go out with him if he asks! Whether he plays or not, if he is mean just politley decline
2006-10-27 23:53:01 · answer #6 · answered by terra_chan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't always answer when a girl says something and my gf is beside me. Get a grip.
2006-10-27 21:00:52 · answer #7 · answered by Nicholais S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't go out with him, be rude to him, he's rude to you, then go find a nice lad with no girlfriend !
2006-10-27 21:17:58 · answer #8 · answered by Jovi Freak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you learn how to write a few words instead a text book .i'll answer you . i am damn lazy
2006-10-28 03:59:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not go out with him, rather wait and watch.
2006-10-27 18:44:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋