I have a boyfriend ,but I dare not introduce him to my parents.My parents hope I can find a boyfriend with capacity of earning money and his family are not too poor. But my boyfriend graduated from high school this year and doesn't find a good job. Fortunately, his family is very poor. I have little confidence in our future .I don't know how do I do.
2006-10-27 17:48:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
caring isnt based on money if you care for him ..?
2006-10-27 17:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are both very young at this point, and you shouldn't be thinking about marriage or anything serious like that yet anyway, so I think you should just bite the bullet and introduce him to your family. Just because your boyfriend hasn't found a job yet, doesn't mean that he won't, and just because he came from a poor family doesn't mean that will be what things are like for him in the future. Don't keep things from your family, it will be stressful on you to keep hiding him and it could cause a rift in your family if they find out you have been lying.
2006-10-27 18:03:32 · answer #2 · answered by missapparition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Hng, Maybe your B.F. is having a hard time finding a good job.Wait and see what happens with the job search.If he isn't looking for work and it doesn't bother him.Sweety this is a red flag.You do want a man who will work and support a family.You don't have to be rich to have a good life.But you must work to get by in this cold world. Just watch and see what you will learn. A Friend.
Clowmy
2006-10-27 18:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is very young yet. You have little confidence. Your parents would object.
This all spells give it a year while you sort some of these things through. Sex does not a marriage make.
2006-10-27 17:51:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kinda down on this guy don't ya think? cut him some slack, he's not superman... or is that who you and your parents want?
2006-10-27 17:58:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why feel negative about the person you are so postive about? you already feel there is no future ...
2006-10-27 18:00:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him time
2006-10-27 18:03:28 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋