His wife is from very good family by power & welth & they always neglect him, what should Ido???
2006-10-27 17:33:32 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He needs to work this out with his wife, and you need to back off until he figures out what he really wants. If you take part in breaking up his marriage, your relationship with him will always suffer.
2006-10-27 17:51:53 · answer #1 · answered by sandeep k 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
once the man is married u shouldnot think of him.if his wifes family neglect him may be he has inferiority complex and u can't take this as a n excuse to love him.wat u both do is WRONG TOTALLY.he should be sincere to his wife.u didnt reason out why he is neglected in his in laws house.he might be on wrong side.u say that his wifes family is a good family.then u should firmly refuse his love for u even though u love him prior to his marriage.Imagine if he leaves u after marrying u and looks for someother girl.how much u will feel hurted.so forget him and advise him to be with his wife and be sincere and lovable to his wife.u try some good unmarried person for u and
2006-10-27 19:23:02 · answer #2 · answered by melchieram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you mean to say that you knew him before and loved him andhe had no feelings for you. then he got married to a lady from a BIG family and she and her family treats him like someone from LOWER status and suddenly he finds your shoulde to cry on and falls in love with you. How convenient? Now, go and find a wealthy husband for yourself, marry him and then go to this man and say that your husband is being cruel and harsh to you and doesn't gives you a dime and so both of you should elope together. He is using you. You, like an infatuated young one, wants to go and drop at his feets and sacrifice yourself for your love but what for? If you will be lost, he will find some other shoulder and then some other. Let this man be on his own and live YOUR life. If, five years from now, he gets a divorce and comes again to propose you, then, try thinking what to do. For then, you will know that he can be consistent in his love affections or not.
2006-10-27 23:28:54 · answer #3 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to a word of advice.... married men that cheat are ALL neglected. Married men that cheat, cheat on thier girlfriends with other girlfriends. Married men that cheat are so mistreated, thier wives never want sex, thier wives don't take care of the kids, thier wives are not attractive any more, thier wives don't clean house...Thier wives work too much, thier wives never want to do anything they do ~ does any of this sound familiar? All married men that cheat have the same old stories for all of the women that fall for them. And if he tells you that you make him feel things he's never felt before or hasn't in a long time, you better run as fast as you can. A girlfriend of a married man is only for his PLEASURE- he does not care WHO he hurts as long as he is finding and fillin ghis needs. As those needs can be a variety of things. Run girl run!
2006-10-27 17:49:00 · answer #4 · answered by SKayeMesqTX 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yawn! i admire you toddler. i comprehend now that I made a mistake by marrying her. particular i'm going to break up yet no longer perfect away. I in simple terms want time to get my stuff so as. I do love you honey and that i want to coach you my love everytime we see one yet another. Oh,it quite is her on the telephone now.I could flow.i'm going to call you when I get a guess.... Get genuine! If in actuality he ever does break up and marries you he will do the comparable to you and tell the different lady the comparable previous boring lies that he's telling you presently. he's a consumer and you are the loser.
2016-10-16 11:53:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember he is married. There are plenty man out there. Why do you want to mess with another woman's man. How would you like it if some woman came and try to steal you husband? Just leave it alone. And next time this guys comes to you and tells you that he loves you. You call his wife and let her know.
2006-10-27 17:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by crazy fingers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run away as far as you can. Don't believe the bull that a married man tells you. They are always out for what they can get. There is always a crazy excuse as to why they have strayed. Find someone that is free to love you. Don't settle for some other woman's leftovers.
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2006-10-27 17:42:45 · answer #7 · answered by june clever 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find another man, this one is taken. Or, if he truly loves you, tell him that he has to get a divorce before you will even consider seeing him. If you allow this man to cheat on his wife with you, even if he gets a divorce to be with you in the end, he will most likely end up cheating on you down the road. Once a cheater, always a cheater...
2006-10-27 18:20:34 · answer #8 · answered by missapparition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he missed the boat the first time around. Since he married someone else you better not turn around but keep on sailing. Don't muck around with married people. If he screws around with you, and the two of you ever get together, he'll probably do the same thing to you.
2006-10-27 17:48:24 · answer #9 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find another man. don't fall into the trap his wife and family neglect him. If they did he would see about a divorce. You don't want to play 2nd fiddle .That only causes a lot of hurt for a lot of people
2006-10-27 17:39:13 · answer #10 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do this type of things. You are only trying to create more problems. If someone has a problem in his life then definitely he will be attracted to another woman but it is not a true love. When the problem between then is solved you will be out. So beware!
2006-10-27 17:38:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋