she now admits that when we got together she was rebounding from another relationship. she says this to me when we have a heated disagreement. which is hardly ever, but usually about her insecurity regarding any type of association with a female. she is very fragile and demanding when it comes to this matter. she'd become a scorned woman after some abusive relationships and an abusive home with her parents. these things were not revealed to me until after we got married. i have always been an outgoing man. this she used to say she loes about me. now she she holds suspicion for the man who has never dishonored his marriage. she even gets upset if i talk on chat. so i dont do that anymore. yet she plays hours of online games and chats with the players. some of these male strangers even know the makeup of my family. i dont want her to not have others to associate with. this is how i feel for her and my self. if i complain, she will stop and expect me to not know people. help?
2006-10-27 17:23:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Husbands love your wife. Wives honor your husband. Its the oldest problem on the planet. Your wife's behavior sounds like a good old fashioned temper tantrum not a real attack on you or your association with anyone. Things said in anger are usually out there. If she is a hot head y ou know that, talk with her when she is calm and steer clear when she is not. Its no fun to throw a temper tantrum if there is no audience. I don't mean to be glib. It's just that we have learned to play games to communicate and the truth is we just need to get honest with each other. The thing is, sometimes the truth is really painful....for both people. The worst thing that can happen is you both learn something about yourself and maybe even each other. Finally, if you are thinking you need a little more adult time to socialize...why not find something you can do together?
2006-10-27 17:35:51 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetserenity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to sound rude but your wife needs some counselling.
Issues from the past become problems for the future if not addressed and dealt with. This is something you cannot fix or change. She has to do it on her own and all you can do is support her in this. The trick is getting her to the help she needs. Not always an easy task since it requires her admitting she needs some help. Keep in mind you do have a part in all this and later on may join in therapy. I've been there myself, worked wonders in my life.
Good Luck
2006-10-27 17:36:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she lost interest with you and seeks another on internet. Remove ram from Pc and act like it may have virus. Then take her out to get her interest back on you instead
2006-10-27 18:10:11 · answer #3 · answered by Mike F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pal she needs help. and why stay with a woman who likes to bring up her .ex. that is not to grownup in my opion?
2006-10-27 17:34:19 · answer #4 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a marriage counseling. or psychiatry for her, she needs help.
2006-10-27 17:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by Tartlettes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Counseling counseling counseling if you want it to work
2006-10-27 17:43:38 · answer #6 · answered by pebbleap 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋