This morning I wake up to anwered prayer about all this time my husband left me and selfish he was.From talking to this so called friend and with was a co- worker him and his daughter played mind games with him,for him to believe that me and this other co- worker had something happening between us and his daughter at that.She told lies to my husband to make him think I was cheating and it was not and true,in turn she uses my husband to get close to him by showing him interest and he falls for it.my Husband calls me a week ago today to tell me he was not coming home and on sunday he calls this other girl and she says she only wants to be friends after she done play with his mind and they shattered our marriage and took him for his money , she stays with her finance which are the same co- workers from the carnival he worked with.Now my husband is out in the cold still thinking i had a affair and never did,he will notcall me so i can tell him what happened instead his family believeI did
2006-10-27 17:16:59 · 9 answers · asked by kdkc06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm glad you found out the rest of what is going on , working in a carnival your husband should have known there are people there that will take him for everything, not all carnival people are bad but just like other jobs the good are mixed in with the bad. I know you love him and want him back and he may even want to come back after he realizes the fool they played him for ,but give it plenty of time he will have to save face this is how men are. If he does not come around in 6 mths I would say he moved on and any man who will not confront you when he thinks your cheating has a problem. Lets say he does come back let him tell his side without blowing up at him and ask him to let you say your side on the same terms. If he still believes you cheated and you HAVE been faithful let it go, but if you are going to forgive him for what he did you must never bring it up again or it will continue to destroy your marriage. Either way move on and try your best to bring fun people in your life that will give you good advise that is not bias on their life.
2006-10-27 18:57:29 · answer #1 · answered by livlafluv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet heart, there is your truth and their truth. their truth doesn't matter. You will find peace in knowing you are not living a lie. A good night sleep is worth all the tea in China. Time will cure and the truth will surface. In the mean time, keep yourself busy and chin up!
2006-10-28 00:24:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a mess! And what an idiot your husband is! Maybe it's not too late to repair things. If you do finally get in touch with him and he comes home, I suggest some couseling. Phew I dunno what else after that, but I wish the best of luck to you!
2006-10-28 00:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by walkinbyfaith7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He made the wrong choices here not you. He is the one that has to explain himself no matter what he believes you did. If you didn't then you have nothing to prove to him or shouldn't rather.
-NmD!
2006-10-28 00:23:35 · answer #4 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is accusing you of what he is guilt of. He had an affair so in his mind he thinks you would do that too. So he is accusing you of what he did. He is transferring his guilt on you.
2006-10-28 00:28:03 · answer #5 · answered by zqx357 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try counceling if that dont work get divorced . ok in my opion?
2006-10-28 00:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him apologize to you
2006-10-28 01:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh?....?
2006-10-28 00:21:21 · answer #8 · answered by voycinwilderness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry.
2006-10-28 00:22:07 · answer #9 · answered by wildstar_2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋