hi me & my friend (girl) stopped talking 4 the past 2 years. just misunderstandings but i really care 4 her as a tru friend i want 2 clear all misunderstandings & tell her that i care 4 her. but the problem is 1 of my friend said that if i talk to that girl again he will tell her that i stopped talking 2 my mother due 2 her & that i've been on fasting 4 her sake 4 the past 3 years wishing & praying 2 god that she should get a gud hubby & nice in-laws. i don't want that girl 2 know these things. i've been wasting time whether 2 tell her the actual things or not. what to do? i am not bothered whether she will understand my friendship or not but just i want to tell her that i care for her. any suggestions? don't think that i am obsessive with this girl. normally i do care for everyone. even for my old neighbours & friends (this includes ladies also)
2006-10-27 17:04:51 · 2 answers · asked by Dvij 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hey man... i have had a similar problem myself... a wonderful girl that i cared soooo much about.... it was due to a misunderstanding as well... people were talking smack about me and her saying that we were dating and such.... She was furious and thought that i was telling the world that we were dating (even though i wasn't)... We didn't speak for 2 years... she had sent me a note in class telling me she didn't feel comfortable around me.... i was hurt very bad, since she thought this way of me... but one day i had the nuts to call her and tell her how i felt... regardless of everything that my friend was going to tell her (I wasn't very happy for 1 year, and depressed the next year). I told her straight forward and i am now in the process of seeing her again soon.... you shouldn't care what people will say including your friend... y should she care??? I hope everything goes well between you two... just do it and let her know how you feel or it will consume you from the inside out....
Good Luck my friend... Go all the way....
2006-10-27 17:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by the sign 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to your old friend and clear your misunderstandings like..., it's up to your friend if she will believe to what your other friend tells right...?
2006-10-28 00:43:53 · answer #2 · answered by silmeria's einherjar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋