I have to admit I like having sex....ALOT. I try to keep it with the same guy but things happen sometimes...like arguing or something like that and I'll have to move on to another. Im willing to have sex with anyone who I think is 'packing' but I've got the art down packed to that hardly anyone knows I sleep around. I've only trusted a few of my friends with my secrets but it's getting annoying...guys are always bragging about how much they tap, but when anyone talks about a girl having sex with like 2 guys they say all kinds of rude things and I dont say anything but I wish I could....hey Im just a girl who needs to fulfill her sexual urges and I dont think its fair that people judge girls like me....whats the difference between me doing it all the time and a guy doing it all the time.
2006-10-27 16:43:00 · 15 answers · asked by Ashley J 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
It has been a taboo from age old. The reason why people hate girls sleeps around because back in the old days, there is no birth controls. When a girl sleeps around and get pragnant. No one knows who is the father. There may be potential incest in the next generations. Problem of incest is the genetic defects and birth defects.
That is why it is necessary to track who is the father of the babies. That is why babies get the last name of the father side. That is to signify the family tree and avoid the genetic defects to surface in the next generations.
For the male bragging:
In the animal kingdom, many mammals are single male with multiple females. The dorminacy male wins all the female. That idea get imprinted into today's world. Meaning successful male will get more females. So it is a symbol of success and dominancy.
2006-10-27 16:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hear this double standard argument all the time, but I've never seen it first hand. Guys might tell each other about their sexual conquests, but they're no better than binge drinkers bragging to each other about how many brain cells they've killed off last night. Promiscuous folks, guys or girls, get positive feedback from other promiscuous folks because of the common lifestyle they have embraced.
I severely doubt that a guy bragging about his sexual conquests would fly over well with a faithfully monogamous man, a church elder, or a married woman. They would see it for what it is---sexual immorality.
2006-10-30 19:19:50 · answer #2 · answered by Langur Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like First L said, I think that this has something to do with "Mama's baby, daddy's maybe." Sex is feels great and is wonderful but ultimately it is for procreation. See, in the cavemen days and before Maury Povich, women had to remain monogamous to ensure that the male in the relationship was indeed the father of the child. Men on the other hand were promiscuous because it was a matter of self preservation to spread their seed and produce offspring. This was to ensure that their genes were carried into the next generation. Once we became civilized creatures, we still had this embedded somewhere in our psyche and to this day, if a woman is promiscuous she is a s1ut while a man is a stud.
2006-10-27 17:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by Sugar Plum Fairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there are a lot of women like you. I have no idea how many partners my girlfriend has had. Although she says that she's only had a few, I imagine that it is more than just a few. But, I don't really care because she doesn't cheat on me and she is healthy.
Perhaps, you can be the first female to start a revolution: Women should have the right to get laid as much as men without being called names.
2006-10-27 18:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Main Event 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the same stereotypical male viewing a girl does it she's a slut a guy does it he's a stud if a girl is fat she's a porker if a guy is fat it's sexy or he's healthy a woman dates a younger guy it's what is she trying to be and a older man with a younger woman it's like yeah man he's king i dont think those barriers will ever change just be safe and use protection . and keep doing what you do at least not everyone knows. cheers!
2006-10-27 17:26:03 · answer #5 · answered by pink dolphin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls can be - seems u r doing it and enjoying it!!
dont bother abt the rest, if this is what u want...
and abt the bragging thing, this has been a taboo for ages now - maybe in the next century or so, girls will be able to brag as much as guys do... but now if they do it, they'll be considered as sl*ts! sad but true reality
2006-10-27 16:57:24 · answer #6 · answered by Jess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the secret, it gives you more power. Men talking about their conquests that's just High School nonsense. I wouldn't even sweat it. You've got the power, and if your friends, or people are ragging on you, that's because their jealous of not getting any.
2006-10-27 16:55:17 · answer #7 · answered by drkstr1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no difference at all. It is not right the way that women get called whores and men get praise for their sexual conquers. Hey what can you do about it though?
2006-10-27 17:20:48 · answer #8 · answered by day dreamin baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? You are right, if we started doing the same thing we would be called sluts, whores..etc but for guys its okay to do this. They should just STFU already.
2006-10-27 16:55:23 · answer #9 · answered by ******* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No difference, which is a shame, since you're just as bad as the guys are it sounds like.
2006-10-27 16:48:50 · answer #10 · answered by Rainfog 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋