I like this guy a lot, but the problem is he is my brothers best friend! what should i do?
2006-10-27 16:32:10 · 15 answers · asked by Mel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He's my older borther
2006-10-27 16:42:34 · update #1
i am worried bout it cause i know my brother very well (living on a mountain wit nothing to do makes u closer to ur brother trust me) i am just afraid he wont exept the fact that i like his friend.
2006-10-27 16:45:29 · update #2
um....
maybe u should just ask him(your crush) if he likes you bak. if he doesnt then you dont have to woory about it. try finding someone else. or maybe your bro wont mind....it might be awkward for him tho.......
2006-10-27 16:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by purplepup220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to run, and whatever you do, don't mention it to your brother. Treat him the same as you treat your brother and don't let on that you like him.
If you date him, it could cause problems between him and your brother. Then if you became his girlfriend and then you broke up, that will probably be almost like your brother will have to choose between being angry with you fo breaking up with his friend and being angry with his friend for breaking up with you.
Sounds like trouble either way you look at it. Look for someone else and put this guy out of your mind if possible.
If he acts like he wants to talk to you, the three of you need to sit down and work it out before hand. It would not be good if you dated him behind your brother's back. then it really would cause a problem in their relationship and your relationship with your brother. And that would not be nice.
Think before you act.
2006-10-27 16:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by Big mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go there b/c that could be bad. I f u and the Crush have a falling out, depending on how u and ur brothers relationship is----it could be bad. But the key word is could, go for it if u really like him and u could see u guys going somewhere!
2006-10-27 16:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by HIGHLY FAVORED 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what if he's your brothers best friend that should kind of a good thing. maybe since he's your brothers best friend you know it will all be good with ur bro. Go for it totally!!
2006-10-27 16:38:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So... If you like him, what's stopping you. It's not like your brother is going to kill you for liking him.
2006-10-27 16:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by alexis.=) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, I really don't think your brother should care!
2006-10-27 16:34:48 · answer #6 · answered by ana3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a problem. Just talk to him and find out if he likes you too.
2006-10-27 16:34:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Me O Mi OH.....Gonna Have Great Fun On The Bayou....miia
2006-10-27 16:37:14 · answer #8 · answered by COOKIE 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no probs, i had a crush on my older bros mate, i asked him about it, made sure it was ok with him and now trev and i are engaged with out first child :-) best thing i ever did
2006-10-27 16:37:36 · answer #9 · answered by amandas_mumma 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont know how to help you there i think that you should ask your brother what he thinks, yes or no, then make your move
2006-10-27 16:37:33 · answer #10 · answered by ... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋