im not popular this year,but i was last year.its weird,cause it drastically changed.the popular girls hate me,but i dont know why,cause they dont know me.it irritates me that these girls hate me before theyve really even tooken the chance to get to know my name.i wanna know why they cant leave me alone and my mom even told me she was gonna come talk to the principle about it.
2006-10-27 16:32:10 · 10 answers · asked by Abby 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is weird, but I think I know you! Well mean girls are stupid. And if this is the Abby (Abrielle?) I know you're going to Cornerstone right now and like you said theres tons of drama. I feel sort of stupid cuz if this isn't you...but whatever let stupid girls be stupid girls. Don't let them bug you and make new, better friends. Trust me, I just got moved to a new school too!
2006-10-28 01:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is funny how some girls think. If you were popular last year and not this year you should not let it get you down. girls hate to be second in line. If they dont know you they feel threatened by you. Maybe they know you were popular last year and they dont want to be in your shadow.you have to find a common ground and bring them to your way of thinking without them knowing it. It is hard to be in that position i am sure. You have to be logical to and realise that they mean you no real harm. It can be a cruel process for you that I know. But in the long run you need to do something that will impress them and make them realise you are as good for them as they for you. young women feel threatened by each other because of boys and turning into young women, they feel that they have to compete against each other. it is all in there heads and you need to not get hung up to much because in the coming years you will come together and could become the best of friends. It just take one good deed to be noticed and you have to concentrate on finding that deed and not to let it bother you to much. Use your good traits and you should not have a problem. If they dont notice you them perhaps they are not the right friends for you after all.
2006-10-27 16:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are having a painful year at school. I would try to forget those unkind girls and focus on being kind to others. Befriend the new girl, or find someone who looks lonely and hang with her.
Try to be kind to everyone. That is how you get a good reputation, and others will want to be around you. It is hard to be the reject. Don't get too down on yourself, or too bitter. Remember this time in high school is only a small part of your life. You have many things to look forward to after school is over.
Try to focus on your studies or join a club. Maybe this will help ease your pain. Keeping busy gives you other things to think about.
2006-10-27 16:37:38 · answer #3 · answered by mar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like jeliousy you may be what they want to be yet cant dont wast your energy on them you are a very nice person thats clear becouse you were popular last year try and find a circle of friends who except you as you are i know it is hard i have been there but believe in your self and others will too and will be drawn to that hold your head up and stand tall smile and say to your self your worth knowing and the rest will follow soon.
2006-10-27 16:37:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls can be so mean. I have a feeling that they sense that you are bothered by them. This is a human thing when people are insecure. The put down other people. Stop reacting to them and they will move on to other people. It sucks, but life can be like that.
2006-10-27 16:39:35 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 11:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a "typical case" of bullying. Don't worry, just try to ignore them
Bullies liek to see that whatever it is they do affects their "victims". If they will see you are not paying any attention to tehm or whatever it is they do at first they'll try harder to get you, but then shoudl stop. It is also always good to teach bullies a lesson - get someone stronger, meaner, etc. to make them "taste tehir own medicine". It could evolve itno even bigger confrontation, though. Try to ignore them, it'll pass.
2006-10-27 16:38:19 · answer #7 · answered by ser_nyc 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Teen girls are ruthless, no joke, I work at JV Hall, and the girls are terrible to each other, even worse than the boys who are in rival gangs,
2006-10-27 16:37:56 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whatever u do dont let ur mom tell the principal, then it could get gerastic! you should just talk 2 them urself and then if thay still hate u just avoid them, thats what i did, the same thing happended 2 me. good luck.
2006-10-27 16:43:12 · answer #9 · answered by ... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its karma? Did you treat anybody that way when you were popular?
2006-10-27 16:53:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋