I've liked this girl for about ten months she been with two guys, but sometimes i get this feeling she kind of likes me. Like a couple of days ago she kissed me but i'm kind of confused. We flirt a lot like every time we see each other we always like cuddle up and stuff like that, but theres still a doubt in my mind. I dont know if i should tell her i like her cause what if she's not bi shes just gonna feel wierd around me, but anyway i really need advice im really lost right now.
2006-10-27 16:18:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
go for it - I'm bi and I think there is nothing wrong with testing the water
2006-10-27 16:20:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of girls are acting that way right now. i have kissed a few girls but i am not bi. i dont even want to know. dont tell her. if it gets uncomfortable, back away. if she asks why, tell her you like her more than a little to much and dont want to ruin the friendship by saying anything to make her uncomfortable. that will give her an opening to say if she feels the same.
2006-10-27 23:23:03 · answer #2 · answered by sassafrass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She kissed you. That alone should be a huge sign that she likes you. She may be confused at this point in time. So, you should let her know how you feel. If anything, I bet you'd find that she's just waiting for you to make the first move! Best of luck! \m/
2006-10-28 07:44:10 · answer #3 · answered by - iceman - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds like if you all kiss and cuddle then she may be bi also. If you are unsure then during a conversation, ask her if she has had a bi experience and if she liked it. If she freaks out just tell her someone wanted to do that with you and you were just wondering. Good luck :)
2006-10-27 23:23:44 · answer #4 · answered by gameaddict 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im straight as a board but i think if she kissed you she must like you on some level ask her what she thimks about bi people you might find out that way
2006-10-27 23:37:31 · answer #5 · answered by sk8erhjk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is honesty.... For instance ask her "You know you mean a lot to me?" See what her response is.... "I enjoy spending time with you... And I would never want to ruin our friendship.... But you know I am gay right?"
See what that brings....
Remember no one has too many friends, just let her know you are available if she is interested and if not that you don't want to loose her..."
Good luck!
2006-10-27 23:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by admiredi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am a girl so I know by acting like that she is trying to tell you that she likes you or sometimes they are trying to make other boys jealous. I think you should tell her.If it's hard for you to tell her the second best choice is to give her a letter or email her.
2006-10-27 23:23:11 · answer #7 · answered by Raven 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just ask her, it seems she could be by the way she acts, but then again I'm bi, and my friend always flirts with me, and shes not, but hey, i suggest you just go for it
2006-10-27 23:42:06 · answer #8 · answered by Mandy+Mark=Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you are not going through a phase? It seems to me like there are more experiments with being gay than that are actually gay.
Think about it if going to Church help then great, just think clearly about weather you are really gay/bi or just over sexed.
2006-10-27 23:20:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Hey, she kissed you, right. Kiss her and see where it goes. :)
2006-10-27 23:22:10 · answer #10 · answered by Alex62 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋