Well I haven't gotten my period all month. I think it may be related to stress. I had sex on October 17 and i still havent gotten it. could i be pregant. i have no symptoms and when i have sex he uses a condom and then when he is about to c u m he pulls out.(he wears the condom, and takes it out with the condom still on before he c u ms. Im 14 going on 15 and mt period is kind of irregular. Can anyone help me. I cant go to a clinic because everyone there will talk. this is a small town. they tell everyone it happened to this girl i went to school with.
2006-10-27 16:17:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Take a pregnancy test to relieve your mind. Could be your worrying about it that is stopping your period.
2006-10-27 16:19:14 · answer #1 · answered by brattybard 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK Baby Girl. This needs to stop. You should have stress over this and this is only a very small taste of what pregnancy and a baby will be like. Let's slow down. First. You may still get your period. Didn't say when it was due, so it's hard to ans. If you're over 2 wks late go get the test and take it just so you feel better. Make him buy it. Cheaper than diapers! Now, I know no one has told you that no form of birth control is 100%! Well, none are. They all fail at least 6-8% of the time. That's not a whole lot but, at 14 who wants to be a mommy? I was 20 and I felt too young. This playing around needs to stop. You need to focus on something else and stop playing grown up before it's too late and you are forced into being one and he won't be around for that I guarantee that. Use your brain and don't be used, or abused or confused. Just don't put yourself out there. Stay home, study, talk to other girlfriends. Have a childhood, please. Then if the test is positive you have a lot of stress and a lot of growing up to do and I can't help you there. Hope mom and dad are there for you.....You need to realize what this is apt to do to them too and everyone, a baby at 14 isn't good. All sexual relationships have an emotional part to them and that's what a 14 yr. old isn't ready for, am I right? I wish you God's grace on this and I pray this will open your eyes to what you are doing and the consequences of it. Good night. Baby Girl.
2006-10-27 16:30:11 · answer #2 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello! Although it would probably be best to talk to a parent, is there maybe a trusted adult or friend that you could talk to? Or maybe try a school nurse. If nothing else try going a little out of town to get a early pregnacy test. If they have a bathroom, use it to take the test. It could be stress, or just your irregular period, but keep in mind, next time, concider whether paying the consequences for the past is worth what you have to live with in the future. Experience is talking here. Good Luck!
2006-10-27 16:33:33 · answer #3 · answered by moon2006 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I recommend that you ask advice of somebody that you can trust (be it a cleric, school guidance or parent) who you know is discrete.
When it comes to things like pregnancy you 'cannot' wait on it. You need answers asap imho. Besides catching it early opens up more options to you. Check with somebody that you can trust (the person you had sex with is also an option as a last resort - it might shock some sense into him - but if he is over 18 then I recommend you tell somebody you're going to his place beforehand (assuming he is old enough to have a place...)).
Oh and a condom is not a guarantee btw... remember that. Good luck!
2006-10-27 16:22:30 · answer #4 · answered by shadow_cup 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're not pregnant if that's the case. You are only stress out that's why you don't have the period. Don't always think of it as if you're pregnant because based in your story he had condom and for added protection he pulled out. so, nothing to worry ok its because of stress ok that's why you miss your period. I advice you to go for an exercise from now on.
2006-10-27 16:33:10 · answer #5 · answered by bowblitz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the clinic to be sure or take a HPT. Abstinence is the only birth control that is 100%. And according to the Privacy Act and HIPAA; NO medical facility can talk about ANY patient...It's against the law and you can sue them. Talk to your parent and/or guardian.
2006-10-28 08:45:40 · answer #6 · answered by doom92556 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y are yo havinf=g sex at such a young age? Arent our taxes high enough. You need to seek help. And who is this child molester that you are having sex with. He needs help too!
2006-10-27 16:20:57 · answer #7 · answered by twysty 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my moms a doctor and she told me once that if you stop having periods then you're pregnant. so i think you need to have a mother daughter talk
2006-10-27 16:23:01 · answer #8 · answered by falawoods 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hon, you need to go to a doctor, maybe you are late, it happeneds but you need to tell someone what it going on and NO MORE SEX UNTIL YOU ARE MARRIED!!!!
2006-10-27 16:19:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
take a preg. test ok gd luck
2006-10-27 16:39:57 · answer #10 · answered by stephanie619 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋