my friend was a douche and ditched me with some other friends when we had plans a week before and discussed them the night before he ditched what should i do to him.....
2006-10-27 16:05:04 · 6 answers · asked by unicornslayer184 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Make some big elaborate plans with him that you know he will want to do & then ditch him. Like a concert or something he just couldn't resist.
Seriously though, you need to find another friend because that was just mean & disrespectful of him to do that to you.
2006-10-27 16:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
The absolute logical thing to do is to sit down with your friend and discuss this. It would be imperative to have this conversation as soon as possible rather than stew about it, seeking revenge and letting time go by. This simply heatens those ill feelings you are having about your friend. Extracting revenge on someone, especially if you and he are friends, is not how you go about resolving an issue. It will simply add coals to a fire burning. Put the fire out, talk to him and let him know that you did not like being ditched; that you and he had plans and it seems that he was committed to those plans. Having been ditched was not part of that plan.
I am sure that a dialogue about how you feel would be much more appeasing than "doing something" to get back at him. :)
2006-10-27 16:12:49 · answer #2 · answered by terryoulboub 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell Him how You feel, and how much it upset You--It wasn't right what He did,and in the future if You Guys make plans You would appreciate that He sticks to Them or You won't make plans with Him for a long time.
2006-10-27 16:15:16 · answer #3 · answered by craigyc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't flip out on him exactly..u don't know his side of the story....he just might have a good excuse for doing wht he did...don't jump to conclusions man...ask him whats up...tell him how the ditching affected you...
judge hsi excuse and decide weather to go easy on him or not...
2006-10-27 16:14:12 · answer #4 · answered by lil_flirt_57<3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well it fills like your getting tossed a side but you can try to make different friends and make the plans with them and if you don't then i just don't know what to tell you ok:)....
2006-10-27 16:25:39 · answer #5 · answered by killler400 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are upset.
2006-10-27 16:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋