Ok i have a friend who i have known since 7t grade and now were in college, so i call her up today and ask her how it went to the club her and a couple of friends went to, well she responds to me in a sarcastic way with her little attitude saying, well i guess it was all right, and then i asked her other questions and she kept on answering in a smartass way, shes always been like this but im fed up with it, i mean its not my fault she may be in a bad mood, i mean i can understand because we all have our bad days, but i have never talked to her like that, its really bothering me, and i dont know what to do anymore , what should i do??? Please if you have any suggestions help, Thanx :)
2006-10-27 16:04:49 · 12 answers · asked by onelove 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My ex-hubby's sis-in-law is like that.
She can't even say hello without sounding sarcastic, even though she means to do it in a friendly way... it just comes out sarcastic.
None of the ex's family like her... they only tolerate her.
Either confront her about it or learn to tolerate her, or stop associating with her.
2006-10-27 17:21:03 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your in college and your meeting new people and are having different experiences. Its great that your keeping contact but as the years go by the harder its gonna get. Something may have happend in that club that you may not know about nor understand ... all you cna do is offer to give her a shoulder to cry and an open ear... there are gonna be lots of ups and downs in your frinedship now that your no longer the two little girls from the seventh grade, you guys hanve new friends different classes and its gonna only get tougher becuase you two are gonna be moving at different paces.
2006-10-27 16:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter how long you've known her. Since 7th grade or since 7:00 this morning she should not speak to you that way. I wouldn't call her anymore & if she calls you wanting to know why just tell her your last conversation left you feeling like she didn't want to talk to you so you haven't wanted to bother her.
2006-10-27 16:14:49 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you feel the friendship is worth maintaining, sit down with her and tell her your thoughts. Maybe she doesn't know it hurts your feelings. It is all about communication, making sure both sides understand the other. And then, sometimes you outgrow people. Decide which this is and take action.
2006-10-27 16:08:19 · answer #4 · answered by tankgirl190 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like she's much of a friend anymore if she's treating you that way. Don't call her anymore. Why keep torturing yourself by calling her?
Sometimes we just outgrow friends. It happens.
But please don't let anyone treat you like garbage. You deserve better than the treatment she's giving you.
2006-10-27 16:09:21 · answer #5 · answered by kachina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok wat goes arround comes arround later when she talks in this sacrastic way try to get more details abt her problem or who is giving her hard time this may help and let me tell u smthing if she wasnt ur true friend she will never show you her anger she is doing this so that u keep asking her wats wrong? and trust me she will tell you
2006-10-27 16:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by del piero 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say confront her about it, and tell her she can take her sorry little attitude to someone who cares, because you're tired of hearing it.
2006-10-27 16:07:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit being her friend. She sounds like an immature b.
2006-10-27 16:07:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Def confront her about it and ask her why she is like that, if she gets defensive then tell her that until she stops, see ya later. be upfront and honest.
2006-10-27 16:09:09 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Princess ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like its time to find a diffident friend. you should confront here and let here know what she is doing, and how it makes you feel , and if that don't work move on...
2006-10-27 16:44:57 · answer #10 · answered by eric t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋