I am a guy, but some individuals think that my face looks more like a girls than a guys. Furthermore everybody seems to think that my voice is more feminine. The truth is that I have tried on girl clothes, and I honestly feel that they are more comfortable. I love skirts and speggetti strap tanks, daisy dukes, and other female clothing a lot more than guy clotheing. I also think that they are a lot more prettier than guy clothes. I have always been more interested in doing more things that girls like, than doing the things that guys like. I wish to meet a girl and fall in love with her, couldn't ever like a guy, but I don't wish to make my preferences a little secret. So do you think that I should shave my legs (I currently do try to shave them everyday anyway.) and wear a skirt in my picture for my profile? What would be wrong with it?
2006-10-27 15:36:49 · 28 answers · asked by skirtman29505 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
as long as you are happy with you go for it!
2006-10-27 15:39:14 · answer #1 · answered by akelaamy 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There is one thing that people try to block out,...
Girls Clothes were Made by Guys and Guys Clothes by Girls for years. Things have been like that on and off,.. so you might as well think that way.
One way to think of things is Clothes should be pleaseing to others eyes, like Perfume to other's Noses, and... all that annoying junk.
But what if the clothes don't fit how active you are and rip up or dmage your body,.. and what if you allergic to the perfume females like the most?
I say screw that. You may want to look into clothes and outfits more Unisex so they are built to deal with your body,.. not for the sake of others. You may want to think about some things,.. clothes Enhance features on a body often,.. and I have a feeling those aren't going to work right for you,.. there will also be movement issues,.. you don't want clothes to get stuck bunched up on your body when the point was to have it stop at certain points on your body to be seen.
Look into clothes that are like what you like but are built for Males or Unisex so you don't run into some movement issues. Last thing you want is a hernia FOR LIFE just because you wore a certain pair of pants or shorts once.
Think about if you really feel comfortable, too. With cooler weather you may need a sweater for while your outside and maybe even tights. But guys are less effected/sensitive by these things (so they convince girls to wear skimpy skin revealing clothes all the time when they are more annoied and likely to get sick in the cold).
But I guess I don't know where you live so that last Paragraph might never be a problem.
Added: Oh Ya,.. forgot your looking for a girl. It seems like there are an increaseing number of girls comeing out online that actually find that attractive,.. various ones have various levels of how far they can tolerate and things they can and cannot stand.
2006-10-27 15:56:18 · answer #2 · answered by sailortinkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't anything wrong with it and shouldn't be. Frankly if women can wear men's clothes is should be okay to be the reverse. Unfortunately, not everyone thinks this. If you do wear a skirt in public, be prepare to be berated. Some people don't even accept the Scots who wear culturally and historically recognized kilts.
Although on another note, avoid daisy dukes. Personally, I feel everyone* should avoid them. Frankly there are ways to look great without having short shorts... flashy over trashy. But that's my personal opinion. ^___^
2006-10-27 15:50:15 · answer #3 · answered by AutumnIris 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If your natural urges drive you to adopt one style of dress over another, you should follow them to their limit. I've enjoyed crossdressing for most of my life. It's been years since I last wore guy clothes, and I don't miss them in the slightest. Needless to say, my preference for dresses and skirts has caused some consternation among family and friends, provoked serious repercussions at work, and ignited flaming remarks from strangers and passersby. But that goes with the territory, and the advantages outweigh such trivial problems.
2006-10-28 00:50:48 · answer #4 · answered by Viki 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah! My brother Michael has a kilt(scottish man skirt). And his girl friend's parents are fine with it because her dad has a bunch of kilts. And he just made a skirt out of an old dress. It's really awesome.. He gothified it. So, It's fine if you wanna wear a skirt. Some people might say or shout bad things at you. My brother went to the movies and he was waiting outside for my mom to pick him up and some guy in a truck shouted out: Nice skirt, valley girl. and he shouted back at him: Thanks, a$$hole.
2006-10-27 15:58:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
honestly if thats what your most comfortable in then yea go for it... but if your serious about not being gay and wanting to meet women then i suggest you not post up a pix of you in a skirt for your pix profile. Im not saying that you should feel the need to hide your hobbies ...just that if you want to meet a wide range of women you have to ease it into it. If the woman loves you enogh she'll be cool with it.
2006-10-27 15:47:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with being happy. If wearing a skirt makes you feel good then wear one. Just be sure to get a good pair of matching heels.
2006-10-27 15:39:43 · answer #7 · answered by will 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, stop and take a deep breath...you may not like what I will honestly say to you.
1. You are making a choice, and people will call you names if you decide to tell others about your secret.
2. Believe that there are no secrets...people can always find out so get ready for the name calling.
3. Guys who like to wear women's clothing are called Transvestities, or Las Vegas ShowGirls, NYC or LosAngeles, California, or SanFrancisco, Cal....and they sometimes get hormone shots to become more like women.
4. Sometimes they are called gay.
5. If you can live with all of that, you can expect your family and others not to understand....so you may be lonely at times.
6. However you have to find out what you are really saying to youself.
7. Are you saying you don't accept yourself as you are.
8. Clothes do not make the person....what's inside makes the person.
9. Look inside yourself.....do you want to be somebody else...is that what you are admiring?
10. What is the best you ever looked ........now try to remember that......when you look like a guy....how can you look handsome, or "like a gorgeous stud"...?
11. Do you want to give that up?
12. If you don't want to give all of that up, then think again...perhaps you will fall for a girl who loves to put all of that clothing on ...and her parts will fit in it better...just for you.
13. So ask yourself....What would I be most proud doing....and do I feel this is best for my spiritual development?
14. Yes, you must think of your total development....growing into who you want to be...and of whom you will be most proud.
If you admire others ...girls that is...perhaps you are just trying to be as attractive ...as you really see them....be careful you may not look as good in their clothes as they do....They have different curves and parts....Understand?
Good luck in your Complete Development!
2006-10-27 15:47:23 · answer #8 · answered by May I help You? 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you wear a skirt if you want to . dont care what other ppl think, i mean that's what wrong with ppl today there to busy trying to impress other ppl, instead of just being themselves. so dude if you wanna wear a skirt then you STRUT YOUR STUFF.
sincerely,
Kayal-Bo-Bayla
2006-10-27 15:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If that's what you wan to do, then go for it. But be warned, you're going to have to put up with alot of harsh comments and people not accepting you. If you can handle it, then do it
2006-10-27 15:40:19 · answer #10 · answered by Nicky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to wear more girl clothes
2006-10-27 20:04:10 · answer #11 · answered by john 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋