what should i do when my bestfriends ask me to choose one of them,my bestfriends or my boyfriend?
2006-10-27 15:02:51 · 9 answers · asked by Mrs.Switzher 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That's not fair for them to ask you to choose, but because you do have a boyfriend try to make a little time for them and not wrap your whole life just around your new b/f. Sometimes we tend to get caught up in our new relationships that we tend to put our older ones on hold and sometimes even forget them. Just sit down with them and talk to them.
2006-10-27 15:07:10 · answer #1 · answered by jenii75 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how do you know she is going to ask you to choose?
The best thing to do would be to ask your best friend why she has been acting the way she has. And don't let her evade the question.
Most likely she is jealous of the time that you now spend with your boyfriend that you used to spend with her.
You have to communicate. If you do not find out what the problem is you will end up loosing your best friend.
2006-10-27 15:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by chuckbaker11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They Must not be GOOD friends because if so they would be happy for you and NOT ask you to choose one or the other If they force the issue to choose them or your boyfriend(and you are very happy with this guy) then choose the boyfriend. WITH Friends like that WHO needs enemy's?
2006-10-27 15:15:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jack C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they're asking you to choose, they aren't being a very good friend. Keep this in mind :)
I would ask your friend what's behind them asking you to make this decision. They are probably pining for all the time you used to spend with them that you're now spending with your boyfriend. Make sure you still make time for them, too. However, if this truly is a good friend, they should be happy to see you happy.
2006-10-27 15:09:06 · answer #4 · answered by Yummy Canadian Mummy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A real friend would not ask you to choose and they would be happy that you have found a boyfriend.
2006-10-27 15:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they were truly your best friends they wouldn't ask you to choose, unless your man is just a piece of trash that treats you really bad and they are looking out for you.
2006-10-27 15:13:03 · answer #6 · answered by T.T. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it extremely is purely distant coolness in keeping with possibility no longer yet once you experience that that's getting less warm and less warm as time is going on then yeah, something detrimental is occurring. If it merely grew to become impulsively then, probable something else is troubling him and he merely would not choose for to convey you into it.
2016-11-26 00:09:37 · answer #7 · answered by bocklund 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them if they're your real friends because they aren't acting that way. If they were really your friends, they wouldn't be putting you in this tough situation
2006-10-27 15:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are either jelous or just not your real friends
2006-10-27 15:08:22 · answer #9 · answered by jessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋