ive gone through 12 yrs of school (not including college) and in those 12 yrs i havent made any friends. i finally made friends in college, but, i never get phone calls from them to hang out and whenever i call them, they never pick up.
2006-10-27 14:56:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do YOU like you? What are your positive traits? Are you the kind of friend that you would like to have? Do you put off such a negetive energy that people don't want to be around you? These are things to consider?
2006-10-27 15:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by Rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sometimes you cant help but meet all the wrong people.
Some things can be a turn-off though, like acting like nobody likes you, acting unconfident or nervous, not listening enough, not saying enough, talking about things that others have no interest in, rudeness, bad jokes, there's no way to say specifically what you should or shouldnt do.
I guess the best advice is to smile and ask questions about the people you want to be friends with.
Remember that everyone's favorite topic of discussion is themself.
2006-10-27 22:03:13 · answer #2 · answered by brian-upstairs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to any random person and strike up a conversation. Tell this person stuff about yourself, and ask them about their life. To cope with the people not talking to you try to forget them. Why should you want to be friends with people that don't like you? If you are still wanting to be friends with your high school classmates then call them if they don't answer, go to their house, and talk to them. Find out why they never talked to you. Who knows maybe they made a big mistake.
2006-10-27 22:23:34 · answer #3 · answered by codeman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What seems to be the problem? Are you lacking self confidence?
Do you get nervous around other people? Depending on how old you are, why not get involved with some type of community sporting thing, or go to a gym, or something social? Basically all you have to do is talk.
2006-10-27 22:02:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do they not like you? There must be a reason. Are you too fat? Lazy? Gossip? Robber? Gay? Find out the reason why and solve it cause even if you move to another town, you're gonna have the same problem.
2006-10-27 22:01:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to change your approach the way you talk to people if too aggressive you will not make friends try talking about others interests
2006-10-27 22:00:42 · answer #6 · answered by The gr8t alien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, that's sad. Well there must be someone in the world who has the same personality as you. Or maybe you're just avoiding them and that;s why you're like this. Try being more sociable.
2006-10-27 22:08:21 · answer #7 · answered by aznbrownprincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run down the street naked, to get some attention, they when they ask you about it, say man i tell you what i was soooooo drunk that night, i dont remember much of the details. You have to show them your cool enough to hang with.
2006-10-27 22:08:47 · answer #8 · answered by sparky_butt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have to take a look at the man in the mirror.
2006-10-27 21:59:12 · answer #9 · answered by CharWiz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you want to volunteer help or else maybe you wanna help with their studies or you might want to move on and come out from house to search for friends this what i did
2006-10-27 22:01:56 · answer #10 · answered by Nikita G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋