one of you asked if he still sees his son and the answer is yes. So have anyone ever got child support without having to get the divorce first??? For more info the divorce will be non contestional which means we don't need lawyers. We will be filling threw the court house ourselves.
but, please let me know if any of you have gottin child support without having the divorce first.
2006-10-27 14:48:31 · 11 answers · asked by jessicacramer1974 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO DIVORCE; NO CHILD SUPPORT
UNLESS YOU ARE NOT MARRIED IN THE FIRST PLACE
2006-10-27 14:51:33 · answer #1 · answered by CMA 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I gave my wife a limited amount of support even though we had 50/50 custody because I made a higher percentage of the family income and I wanted to make sure my kids were fed.
But I also made sure that it was a fair deal for myself so that my kids could get fed at my house -- after she took all of the family money before she took off.
You can ask for support before the divorce is finalized, because sometimes it takes a while and a judge will sometimes make a temporary finding to insure that the children are cared for. It is also a good thing to go for if it looks like it will take some time because if a person doesn't uphold their support agreements before the divorce, they probably won't afterwards, and a judge likes to know things like that.
Good luck and God bless as you go through this difficult time.
2006-10-27 14:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by HeartSpeaker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not living in the home with you...then yes you can get support payment but you need to go to the courts and file...you will also get back money from the day you first filed for the divorce....he has to pay for his children..that's the way it is is Michigan anyways....but he has to be living outside your home and be able to prove it...i just went threw this with a very close friend of mine...
2006-10-27 14:58:49 · answer #3 · answered by pantherblack05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 00:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by bocklund 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ypu have to get the divorce taken care of first. then you could fill for the child support... I know this sucks but that's how it works.. when you two go tocourt for the child support you will be able to tell how long you've been to gether & a part and u need his help with the kid the judge might give you money from the part you two spearted but on don't hold your breath on it... also tell them you have/ don't have any problem with him seeing the child.....
2006-10-27 14:57:27 · answer #5 · answered by lovargirl158 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you can go to your local child support office and file. If you are legally seperated then you can get child support court ordered
2006-10-27 15:28:43 · answer #6 · answered by shelly871985 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can go on line and fill out a child support worksheet that will tell you how much he should be paying. If he is not willing to pay go to you county's child support enforcement agency, as long as you are separated he should be paying.
2006-10-27 14:51:41 · answer #7 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know a guy that separated from his wife and 6 months later he filed for a divorce and had to pay back payments for not paying before the court order.
2006-10-27 14:56:38 · answer #8 · answered by ash 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he's living outside of the family home - then you can get child support.... go to court and file the papers .
2006-10-27 15:16:52 · answer #9 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't....I'm sorry to say this...But the only way the person who has the child will get it is if u two are divorced.....Good luck
2006-10-27 14:56:05 · answer #10 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋