Iknow a man who spends his time on the internet.He does have a family, but only spends minimal time with them. He is always saying he needs his own space,which everyone is intiteled to, but he also has an obligation at home. I think he is emotionally detached from them and stays with his wife for convinence, and to not have to take care of the kids. He doesn't help around the houseand rarley has sex with her unless she makes the first move. He once cheated with someone he met on the internet. When whould you think was enough?
2006-10-27 14:28:05 · 15 answers · asked by gr8007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ok, this guy more than likely is looking for a woman he can hook up with. He's thinking only about himself and his pleasure. I suggest that this couple get marriage counceling. He needs help, because if his actions don't come to a stop, their marriage will be over.
The reason that he's not showing much interest in sex with his wife, is probably because he's having sex with other women.
I know becuse I've been there, spent most of my time on the computer, and not much time with my wife and kids. And I had been looking at porn while on-line, and also I was having affairs. But thankfully my wife is a very forgiving woman. Because we almost ended up in a divorce. We are going through marriage counceling and I've overcome a sexual addiction that was a big cause of why i was detactched from my wife and kids.
Hope that this helps. Take care and God Bless
2006-10-27 14:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IMHO - He is a moron who doesn't deserve a wife!
Marrige is a forever thing (at least amoungst the Sasquatch)!
A man who is not willing to care for his wife and children should be put in jail. There should be a law against this sort of thing!
Yeah, I get a little emotional when a guy has a loving (I presume) woman and chooses to look around.
But, then, all things are relative! There may be more going on than meets the eye!
In the mean time, me thinks he is still a moron!
Just my thoughts!
Regards,
The Ol' Sasquatch Ü
2006-10-27 14:41:23 · answer #2 · answered by Ol' Sasquatch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yesterday
2006-10-27 14:30:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh let's see, I think enough is when he CHEATED. Hello if he did it once he will do it again, what do you think he is doing on the Internet now, searching for ways to save his marriage? NO....searching or talking to the next girl to hook up with. If he cared he would be desperately trying to save his marriage, going to counseling, changing - he blatantly does not care.
2006-10-27 14:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by Carey L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your b/f or hubby perchance?? And unlike one of the following answers ....I don't think he has turned his life around...Good Grief some people are dense....must be a bleeding heart that has cheated himself.
2006-10-27 14:30:38 · answer #5 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For this guy, the grass is greener over the next horizon.
He is not commited to his family, just to himself.
2006-10-27 14:30:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes possibly looking for #2 , who knows
2006-10-27 14:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by someone_you_wish_you_knew 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may be bored or disappointed with the way his life has turned out. Ask him 1
2006-10-27 14:36:44 · answer #8 · answered by aguy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
the second he turns the computer on again to go to the "deperate people" websites. i think his family should show him the door.
2006-10-27 14:31:12 · answer #9 · answered by Skorpian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that sounds like my hubby except for the whole cheating part.
2006-10-27 14:41:50 · answer #10 · answered by Tenshi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋