but they treat my like s hit?
2006-10-27 13:56:38 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
son-22 son-18 and my daughter is 7, she doesn't disrespect me.
2006-10-28 10:57:31 · update #1
maybe ur husband be talkin sh!t bout u to the kids behind ur back
lol jk alota kids are that way
2006-10-27 13:58:35 · answer #1 · answered by Soggy thoughts 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most parents think that their children are the most beautiful! The problem is when the kids themselves also think that they are so beautiful. You have created monsters, or at least kids with pretty faces, yet ugly interiors! The older they are, the harder it will be to cause them to learn some humility, respect for others, and not to be vain!. If you are vain, then they are following your example. If you don't change, then you won't change them. They will most likely learn a hard lesson from someone else, who doesn't care about their outward beauty. Children are for the most part a product of their environment(s). If they don't respect you, they won't respect others, which will reflect on you. They are miniature versions of their parents to some degree, the good and the bad parts. If they are pre-teens, then there may be hope, but if they are in their teens, or older, then nature will take its course, because they will rebel against anything you have to tell them!
2006-10-27 14:13:55 · answer #2 · answered by macfifty06 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everyone's bias to their own kids, so to me my children will be the most beautiful but to the next person theirs are.
Your kids treat you bad because you let them. They know you love them too much so they try to get away with what they can. It doesn't matter what other people do, but if you don't show them what they are doing is not right. Then they will keep treating you this way.
Make then respect your feeling and earn your love.
2006-10-27 14:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by B T 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your kids are everything to you. Without them you feel like your life would be empty. Because of this you spoil them too much. Even though you have been warned about this you still give them everything and let them do whatever they want. Yes they are beautiful but you need to take control of this situation or you will be very sorry. Do it for them they will thank you later in life.
2006-10-27 14:03:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Duuhh - you have probably stressed physical beauty as a value rather than respect and intelligence. When I look at your photo it screams "It's All About Appearance" - Yikes! glad you are not my Mom; I would never live up to your "must be a beautiful kid" standard -and would never be praised for the intelligence I have.
2006-10-27 14:03:55 · answer #5 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sure your kids are very beautiful but I have to argue with you about the most I think my daughter is lol
2006-10-27 14:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by steffi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you allow it. There is no way in hell that I am going to lay down and go through the pain of bringing a child in this world and let them stand up and disrespect me; I will slap the hell out of them and I don't care how old they are, because they're still in my house. In the famous words of Bill Cosby, "I BROUGHT YOU IN THIS WORLD, AND I'LL TAKE YOU OUT"! Put your foot down and demand respect; and if you can't get it, ANYTHING IN YOUR HOUSE TOO GROWN TO RESPECT YOU, NEEDS A HOUSE OF THEIR OWN!!!
2006-10-27 14:04:58 · answer #7 · answered by 2"CUTE"2B30 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have the most beautiful kids because perhaps it runs in your genes....and at the eyes of a mother, no one can ever be more beautiful than her own kid...
but im sad to know how they treat you, perhaps, something is wrong with your relationship with them....kids now a days are rebellous, depending on the situation, i dont know because you didnt give enough details for me to picture your situation, anyway, its never too late, do something to work out your relationship with them....
2006-10-27 14:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by sheikaella 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um lets see maybe you let them get away with almost anything,you know I see these kind of situations on tv and you need to get tough about it,I mean c'mon you are going to let them treat you like ****,then maybe they should, your letting them!
They also sound like beauty and the beast,they are beautiful but they are beasts.
2006-10-27 14:53:20 · answer #9 · answered by Natalie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Show them a little respect and patience and kindness and maybe they will respond well to you. Children sometimes rebel because they feel they've been neglected. I don't have children but I've dealt with enough to see how they function if you like
2006-10-27 14:00:34 · answer #10 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They treat you how YOU let them. They are bad and you let them treat you bad. I have a brother who treat my mom and stepdad like s hit because they let him, yet they are just like you, asking why and I've told them the same thing I just told you.
2006-10-27 14:01:09 · answer #11 · answered by wv_country_princess 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋