I met this girl named Janet 2 years ago and I thought we were freinds since I supported her when she cried and weeped. I feel like she isn't giving me credit for all I did for her. She still treats me like she did before she met me and I also feel like she discriminates me. But she is also very insecure and she's always whining about how terrible her school is and how terribly popular people treat her, but everytime I try to help her, later she just treats me like a stranger, what should I do?
2006-10-27 13:49:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you dont need Janet in your life..she doesnt deserve to have a friend like you.
2006-10-27 13:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really like her friendship then u should just confront her about it the worst thing that could happen is she'll tell u she doesn't like or care about u, then you'll know and move onto a better friend,on the other hand she could be soooo insecure she doesn't even realize how she 's treating u and take it from there
2006-10-27 21:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always hard to deal with people like that. It's good that you value your friendship with her, but if she wont acknowledge you, then what are you getting out of it?
Leave her alone, and try to discourage her from crying on your shoulder... Let her feel what it's like to be alone, and maybe then she will appreciate you a little more.
2006-10-27 20:54:07 · answer #3 · answered by brian-upstairs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you even have to ask if she is your friend, your answer is no.
she is not a friend and you need to ditch her, tell her that she is rude and complains too much and doesnt seem to respect you or the fact that you have helped her. try not to be mean about it. just move on, she doesnt deserve a good friend like you.
2006-10-27 20:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think she is not a very good friend and it's time to find a different friend one who will appreciate you and all you do
2006-10-27 20:53:13 · answer #5 · answered by minnesotanicegurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lose her. My so called best friend cheated with my husband for two years.
2006-10-27 20:58:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
..she's the kind of friend that when she has problems she will come to you but after that she'll just ignore you..
..she's not a real friend....
2006-10-27 21:04:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen hon i have had friends like that and it sucks. get rid of her, but don't make her cry.
2006-10-27 20:58:58 · answer #8 · answered by psychopathic bi*ch. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know..., people like those only cares for themselves..., it's no goOd if yOur gOing to stick with them for your whole life..., ain't it...? so you should say thanks to him for being a friend and let her be..., she'll then realize how it feels being ignored...
2006-10-28 01:36:00 · answer #9 · answered by silmeria's einherjar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break from her. You owe it to yourself.
2006-10-27 20:52:05 · answer #10 · answered by Mary Rose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋